So I dumped my boyfriend of 3 years a few months ago and now I want him back. Why?
I was confused and I thought I didn’t have any feelings for my exboyfriend. He begged me and cried not to break up with him but I didn’t care and he moved out of our house a few months ago. We haven’t really talked much since then but now I think I want him back and I don’t know why because I didn’t feel anything for him back then. Has this happened to anyone else out there?
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It is because you now feel that familiar and comfortable niche where he was is now empty.. so now you miss him and wish he was there again because that niche needs to heal first.
You obviously never met Cody Deaner
it happens alot. its because you hurt him and made him cry and you broke his heart. now you realize he wasnt such a bad guy and want him back…
it happens. you’ll think of him
maybe your jelous when u saw him with someone else no u want him or what the first guy said
You didn’t appreciate him when you had him, and now that he’s out of your life, you miss him. It’s normal; however, IF you think you want to patch things up, you should be sure that you really want him. You may just hate being alone.
cause sometimes u don’t know what u have till its gone..u didn’t appreciate him. and you probably were using ur emotions at the time then using ur head and following ur heart.
"So I dumped my boyfriend of 3 years a few months ago and now I want him back. Why?"
Don’t ask us! We’re not you. You obviously know the answer. Try ‘thinking.’
You think… you want him back?! Ok, well, then you need to some more thinking. Either you do want him back or you don’t.
Talk to him, tell how you feel and find out how he feels.
3 years, that’s a long time.
Your so used to being with him that its probably all you ever think about. Sometimes you won’t put him in your past until another guy enters your life…unfortuanltly its just the way girls are- emotional and need the feeling of being loved by someone. Keep yourself busy to keep him off your mind, unless you forsure think he might be worth going back to! goodluck.
There a couple possible answers to your question.
The first and most probable, I feel, is that once we end a relationship that we are not happy in and some time passes we tend to have more memories of good times we had rather than the bad times or how unhappy we were. So what we had looks kind of good instead of what it really was.
The second, is that the grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence. Meaning that you thought that what you didn’t have, looked better than what you already had and once you jumped over the fence and realized that what you didn’t have was not as good as it looked and you should have stayed where you were. I hope that makes sense to you.
I just thought of a third possible option and that one is that you were young and thought you didn’t want to settle down so you broke up and then matured and realized you are now ready to settle down and the guy you left is the guy you want to settle down with. I doubt this is what has occurred in your situation since it has only been 3 months since your break-up and people don’t generally mature much in that short period of time.
Because you’ve gone out to strangeville and now you know you cant find anyone who cares about you like he did. Basically what im saying is that you should seriously kiss his a%* because you dont deserve a dude to take you back after you crap on him. and your welcome
Did he do anything in perticular for you to want him back? If so what did he do? I am in the same situation and I think my ex may feel the same way, but I dont know for sure.
If you want to email me you can, it would be nice to hear if he did something for you to want him back.
And yes, if you feel like you did before, it is def worth a shot, just be sure and make sure you explain your self.
Hope this helps.