Shouldddd i stay a virgin and save myself for marriage?
Alright, so im sixteen, i’ve been with my boyfriend for almost nine months now. he doesn’t push me towards sex or anything, but i know he obviously wants it, he’s 17. part of me really wants to like respect my body and wait until marriage, and then the other part is like, what’s the point? There’s always a chance of getting pregnant even with protection, and im diffidently not ready for that, no matter what. should i wait? would people look at me differently?
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Well from the way you put it, yes save it. =)
Cuz you said part of me wants to respect your body, if you think of it that way, definately at all cost wait. Because a lot of people when they are this young, will regret it.
I am 16 and no i am not a virgin, but i don’t regret it. We broke up now but part of me still likes him, he changed. I still deeply love the person he was before, but its just life is unpredictable, he seems to be a total different person now. And probably when i do find a new lover then i’d regret it because first time hurts and i’d probably think, im sorry for not saving it for you, to be able to go through the pain together. =)
well people would look at you differently if they find out. haha. obviously right? If you’re not ready for pregnancy then definately dont, because before we did it we laid it all out and talked about what would happen. If this guy loves you obviously he’d respect your decision and wait too.
Wait. please please wait.
Yes, wait.
Wait until you’re older (not necessarily married) to have it that way you can accept full responsibility of your actions.
I personally would not want to marry a virgin. There’s only so much you can teach someone about sex. It’s a skill that’s learned through experience.
People have no clue as to whether you have had sex or not until you tell them. If you don’t want to be pregnant, then do not have sex. Do what you feel is right. You are the one who has to live with it.
Wait.
this is a decision that you have to make and not be influenced by something off here. i have had sex and im 17 but that might notbe right for you. your going to have every religious person telling you to wait till marriage and lots of others telling you to just do it but its really your choice.
if you want to wait that is fine. however i am 17 and lost my virginity when i was 16, i loved him and am still with him and i do not regret anything. so if this is what you want, there is nothing wrong with that. wanting to have sex is fine too.
i think u should wait.
if u were to get married to someone else someday then it wouldnt be as special being that he wasnt ur first (does that even make sense?)
plus im a christian so yea….
fuck him wait im waiting till i get married trust me if you do it now and wear your white dress on your wedding day you not only lying to your self your bullshiting your mother and father and god
I don’t believe in saving it for marriage only because what if you get married and you find out there is no sexual chemistry between the two of you? I’ve met girls who waited and got married before having sex and guess what? The guy was terrible in bed and she had to live with that for a very long time and it caused her to cheat on him. Too much drama! Some people just aren’t sexually compatable. As long as you are 100% safe (condoms AND birthcontrol together) I think having a healthy sex life before marriage is fine. You’ll understand more about your body, what does (AND DOESN’T) turn you on and be a better lover because of that when you DO meet that special guy. AGAIN…..BE SAFE…..BIRTH CONTROL PLUS CONDOMS!!!
Stay a virgin.
I was in a relationship like that, and yes the temptation of it came up, but I feel like I should save myself, and you can’t guarantee you won’t get pregnant. You have mixed emotions, I felt that too. If he loves you and respects you, Then he’ll understand. If he doesn’t, then, maybe he isn’t the right guy.
WAIT! People do look at u differently i lost it right before my 16th birthday and i have regretted it ever since it doesn’t make u feel any different.. people call me a whore and a slut cause i lost it so early and its really hard lying to my mom
Congratulations first of all for being able to maintain your virginity! I think you should wait because you want it to be not only special but with someone you are sure cares about you the same way that you care about them. The reason is that you would not just be giving away your body but a piece of yourself, and that boy/man should be worthy of you and respect you. And personally at 16 I was not a very good judge of who really cared for me and who did not.
Me too. Just wait, I’m waiting til marriage. My entire family has had sex before marriage and ended up with kids at an young age. Some men think it’s a honor to marry a virgin. It brings trust to the relationship. But its your decision though. I just wanna break out of the pack.