How quickly after breaking up with your ex can you be friends?
a week? a month? a year?
My ex hasn’t stopped calling me since he broke up with me. Does he think we can be friends immediately or is he still interested?
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You broke up with him, so of course he’s still interested. He thinks it’s just a temporary breakup. As for being friends, it isn’t often possible.
It could be both. Also, you could be friends right after the break up, if it was a friendly one. If it was a yelling contest, then wait a while, a month or so, then talk to him again.
I quess it all depends how and over what you broke up…..If you are the dumper then take as much time as you need apart,when you are the one dumped by him it might be a sign he still wants you to be an important part in his life but bottomline your loving relationship has ENDED.
It depends.
Sometimes you can’t be friends. If you guys use to talk on the phone a lot it’s probably a sign of him being unable to function like a friend. Therefore, he may still be interested. Are his calls urgent or is he just trying to talk to you? How excessive are his calls? This is why it depends. He overall still has some attachment to you and wants to have some sort of relationship. Whether that means friends or more, he wants to keep in contact.
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In my experience, you can be friends once you can separate romantic feelings from your ex, it’s probably ok to be friends. The problem is that it usually takes time. An ex calling you too much right after a break up without intentions of getting property or fixing finances you guys may have had together, is probably still trying to be in a romantic relationship with you. If you don’t want that type of relationship, tell him to give you sometime to focus on yourself and that you’ll let him know when you’re ready to talk to him again.
He might just want you back out of fear of rejection or being alone. He calls a lot so you don’t forget about him and your recent relationship. If you broke up for a meaningful reason be aware that even if he wants you back that things necessarily might not be different.