Not sure what to do with ex… she doesn’t want me back but still wants to meet all the time?
Well, I’m really stuck here, split up with my ex 6 weeks ago now and still miss her terribly. We’ve got through the really bitter stage of the break up and now see eachother once or twice a week and usually just spend the evening together (and have sex). She knows I want her back in my life but she still maintains that she does not want me back (as I slept with another girl 4 weeks after we split and she finds it unexcusable).
I know that her family would not approve of us getting back together (although I dont nothing wrong although ask for what she owed me apparantly the fact her family saw her upset is being blamed on me) and I’m pretty sure her friends wouldnt be too keen on it either as I know my friends wouldnt! But the simple fact is I still love her and we still get on really well… but every time I bring it up she says no! What can I do? I was thinking of sending flowers to her house to show everyone how serious I was about her – whether it would go down well or not I don’t know!!
What can I do?
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Analyze this Andy,
She allows to give you the sex but not the relationship? She uses the sex to get her freedom from you to do and see whomever she wants.
Worse thing you could do really is have another fling to make her jealous because all that will do is complicate the whole thing. Plus, I will bet you see if you check her out that she is having a fling now – I will guarantee it. So she is very double standard with this relationship.
What you can do and it won’t be easy but don’t keep seeing her. You hold back. No more sex. No flowers. When she dangles the carrot in front of you tell her "I’m busy Sally…I’ve got to go……. take care". Be pleasant with her but act ambivalent. She will really change with you. You have now taken the power away from her. She will either try and pursue you back or she will keep on doing this and seeing other people and torture you on a regular basis to "punish you".
You didn’t mention children so I take it you were smart not to bring kids into this early on. I also take it you didn’t marry so this will be alot easier.
If you find out she is messing around on you now how would that make you feel? Especially since you are the one being scorned for doing that in the past with another girl afew weeks ago??
Think about this. But don’t keep being Switzerland because she is using you and you can’t go on with your life now because she has you on hold mode.
Either go full out and get her back or do as I suggested and pull away. Good luck
just see her through for some time. have fun man got two gulfreinds at a time. but dont commit anything unless u want to have life forward with her.
you need to stop seeing her because she obviously doesn want you back as a relationship… she just wants you for the sex. she doesnt lvoe you like you love her… you have unrequitted love my friend & need to stop seeing her. sorry.
if she doesn’t want to be with you, then you can’t change her mind. Have some self respect, stop sleeping and hanging out with her and your problems will go away. You are only hurting yourself here
dont. Stop having sex with her. If she doesnt want then leave it. Dont cross the line as if u continue this you will feel more towards her and yet she’ll reject u still. So why make urself suffer so much?