why am i stuck on her?
After the gf and i had an awesome summer together, she tells me last sunday night that she is feeling stressed out and smothered. i should also point out that her bff is having a baby and another good friend just got engaged so idk if she is scared or what. She wants to take a step back and just kinda see how things are. then last monday night she tells me its put up or shut up time for her and that her gut says she cant commit to me forever so she has to see what else is out there. She has broken up with me 3 times now, once a year and now that we graduated college i thought things were going smooth. i chased her when she studied abroad in rome but she admitted that didnt help in any way (one of the times we broke up). i dont know what to do, she says she wants to talk about things and last night I texted her last Monday or Tuesday night but got no answer. Last Wednesday night i texted her and it was just a basic chat about how our days were and that work was a distraction for her but she didnt respond to my goodnight. What do i do? I know she is the one and thats part of why she does this, she knows how i feel and she in my opinion has commitment issues about forever she thinks there is something she is missing out on or that she has nothing to compare me too. how do i fix this, how do i get her back when she keeps says it has nothing to do with me?
The gf/ ex gf and I talked tuesday night and she said she loves me and cares about me but she just isnt sure if the love feeling is more then friendship this is after 3 years of going out. She said that she feels i walk on egg shells that i dont want to voice my opinion because im afraid we will break up. She said that she doesnt want to give me false hope but she considers me part of the family. I know she is the one God wants me to be with forever i just have that feeling. i have chased her in the past only for her to chase me when she thought i moved on with someone else. when will she realize the perfect picture is with me and no one else since i feel she thinks she is missing someone who is better or that she is missing out on something???
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Get another girl out of the trillion girls you can choose from out there.
you love her….
Give her the time and space she is requesting and let her go her own way. Whatever is ailing her, she needs to get it out of her system. You just wait patiently in the sidelines and hopefully she will come to her senses and re-commit back with you. It’s quite obvious that you love her, but for your sake that love also needs to be reciprocated before it is a wholesome two way love.
Letting her go temporarily could be the quickest way to get her back, but you will need to be patient.