I broke his heart 3 times but now I want him back again?
Read everything before you answer! Last year I went out with this guy that I had like for awhile. We were dating for a little over a month. I broke up with him and I don’t even remember why. Over the summer he texted me asking me back out. I said yes but we didn’t see each other the whole time, so about a month later I called him and told we should take a break because there was no point in ‘going out’ if we weren’t even going to see each other. He loved me all along, and I knew it. I had broken his heart twice, but then I wanted him back. So at the end of August me and some friends were at a football game and I was texting him and I was like, "You should come to the football game" (because I wanted to get back together with him). When he showed up we went for a walk and decided we should get back together. For about a month everything was perfect. But then I fell in love with him. It sounds pretty dumb because I know he would never hurt me, but I just didn’t want to be vulnerable to that kind of pain. I was scared to get my heart broken. I started making excuses not to hang out with him, and then I told a few close friends I was going to break up with him. They were shocked and I told them that it was because he was annoying and clingy. Which was true, but it wasn’t that big of a deal, and I could live with it. I broke up with him and he took it really bad this time. He hardly talked to anyone for awhile. That was a month ago. Now I’m realizing how stupid it was. I really think I want him back. I’m not making this decision lightly, I’ve been thinking it over for about 2 weeks. I keep coming back to the same conclusion: I love him. I just don’t want to risk hurting him again. Please don’t tell me I’m just feeling lonely and that it will pass because I know that’s not it, and please don’t tell me I’m too young to know what love is, because that’s not true. BTW I’m 14. Also, he’s probably pretty pissed at me and I don’t know if he’d take me back anyway. I think I already know what I’m going to do, but I really need an unbiased opinion. Thanks<3
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I doubt he will want to date you anymore after what you’ve done to him. Tell him you need to talk to him, explain EVERYTHING; tell him why you broke up with him and you know its stupid and you didn’t need to be scared. Tell him even though after what you two have been through you still love him with all your heart and you can’t live without him. Tell him you can’t stop thinking about him no matter what and (again) your SO sorry. You didn’t realize how much you truly and fully loved him until it was too late and you know that but you can’t live without him no matter what you’ve tried doing.
He might be in too much pain to want you back even though he (MIGHT) still love you.But then again he could love you so much that he will take you back. You’ll never know unless you try.
Sorry with your problem i hope it all works out between you two.
-Best of Luck
P.S. Say all of those stuff if there TRUE. if you really truly feel that way because Honesty is the best thing
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First off, how do you break something 3 times?
Secondly, "3 strikes you’re out!" definitely comes to mind as I read this.
try talking to him about it, but i feel from what you did with him he eventually understood you and thus will want to stay away from you. learn to be stable with the next guy. dont play games cuz it will eventually hurt you only.
think about what youve done. 3 strikes is a lot and for stupid reasons. ultimately is gonna be his choice if he wants you back. think about what you like about him and why you want him and make sure you do it for the right reasons.
Alright hun, i know exactly what you mean, i have been through some thing like that. if you really love him that much then go for it
but stick with you decision. Yeah I’m not sure if he’d be willing to take you back either but if he really loves you then all you probably have to do is prove to him that you love him that much and that you wont hurt him. try to stick with him for more than a month or whatever. good luck 
Hey,
Sorry to hear about all that, hon. I know how you feel. It sucks, especially when you broke up with him for stupid reasons. Well, I would probably come clean, which is what I am going to do with the boy i Love.
Don’t Listen to all that about ’3 strikes you’re out’ thing. I think that it just makes your love stronger, and therefore if he does take you back, your love will be stronger.
As they say ‘time spent apart will make you stronger.’ Of course, you can’t undo what you did, but neither can you erase the memories. Explain to him that you will never, ever hurt him again, and that it was a stupid mistake to make, breaking up with him what seems like a million times over.
Of course, what you did is affecting you now, and maybe that proves something. That if you were affected short and long-term, you love him and seriously can’t live without him. same as, if you weren’t affected long-term, you probably don’t love him enough to get back together.
I Know this is probably a lot of waffle, ’cause God knows it looks like it, but I hope you make the right decision.
Good luck, I hope everything works out for the both of you