How can I get my ex to stop?
So about a month ago I broke up with my ex girlfriend because we had too many problems. A week later I started dating another girl ever since that day my ex won’t leave me alone. At night she would always text me asking what she can change to get me back and that she loves me and that when I left her that there is
something missing. She also said when I left her she was almost gonna turn bi. When we were going out wanna I showed her affection she would always make me get away from her. Now she apologies and wants to start fresh. I mean I hate how this has ended but she won’t stop coming back to me like this. Most of the time I just ignore it but I’m starting to just get annoyed by it. She said she’s striving so hard to get me back to fill that empty void. What can I do to get her to stop but so that she’s at least my friend?
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Tell her if she doesn’t stop you’ll block her numer and/or get a restraining order. Tell her you’re willing to maintain a civil relationship but her constant pushing trying to get back with you isn’t going to work and has to stop.
You might not be able to maintain a plantonic friendship with someone that desperate to get back with you. Chances are she probably can’t handle anything less than having you all to herself…so she may end up with nothing.
sorry she’s just a crazy psycho b*tch.
tell her straight forward without hurting her feelings that "if you really want to get back together with me, start out with only being friends first and only do friend things."
possibly?
She’s not going to be able to be your friend if this is how she’s acting. She obviously didn’t care enough until she lost you. She didn’t think you were smart enough to leave, and look at you. You did, congratulations. There isn’t much you can do, text her and say stop I just want to be friends. So when you grow up and text me. Until she stops her childish games then talk to her.. other than that I would just ignore her to the best of my ability. Don’t let it get to you.. your just feeding the dragon.
u shud tell her that u dont want her back and tell her it’s hard for u because u only want to be her friend.She’ll be hurt but she’ll probably be ur friend. If she doesn’t listen then maybe u shudn’t be her friend or her bf..make her hate or dislike u. :] good luck.
talk about pushy!
i see that this is a tough situation, because you still want her to just be your friend. tell her that you tried a relationship with her, and it didn’t work. now you have a girlfriend, and her being all over you is being disrespectful to her. you want to be her friend, but the way she is acting isn’t helping. tell her that perhaps she would have had a chance in the future, but right now she doesn’t have much of a shot at even a friendship. theres a definite problem with her not leaving you alone about it. tell her that she needs to learn that there are other guys, and she should try dating one. you want her to be your friend, but you really don’t want to be friends with a toddler, and that’s how she’s acting.
i know that sounds a bit harsh, but you’ve tried being nice already. if she keeps pushing, tell her that you’ll block her number until she settles down and decides to become realistic.
i hope this helps!
xoxo
annie<3
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