Ways to get revenge?? I need help with an ex-boyfriend AND an ex- bestfriend..?
Soo me and this guy, Ben, were as happy as can be (or so I thought). He was telling me he was so in love with me and I really thought he was and I had so much feelings for him. He was also really close to MY best friend who I’ve known all my life. So life was going great and then we started getting into little fights which would escalate. And he would run to MY best friend for support and then me and her would fight. By the way my best friend, Angie, was enagaged with a kid at the time. Anyways, so one day I ended up breaking up with him over one of these fights and the next dday I found out that Angie had left her fiance, whom she just had a baby with about 1 month ago, for Ben. I know revenge isn’t always the right thing to do and that time heals all wounds, but I would just like to feel better about my self through this. Any ideas??
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"…….I know revenge isn’t always the right thing to do and that time heals all wounds, but I would just like to feel better about my self through this……."
Correction.
Revenge is NEVER the right thing to do.
It may satisfy your ego, for an hour or a day, but in the end it will only make you feel worse. It will make you more angry, more bitter, and make you feel even more alone.
Isn’t it bad enough that two people treated you badly one time? But now through your anger, bitterness, and vengeful thoughts, you *allow* them to cause you pain *every day*, again, and again?
Basically, you have only two choices here.
1) Remain bitter for months or years.
2) Forgive, and move on with your life.
I guess you have to ask yourself, what do you value more? Being happy, or holding on to that bitterness? When you get a splinter, do you allow it to lie under your skin and fester, constantly worrying it and working it deeper; or do you endure a moments pain, and pull it out?
Good luck, whatever you decide.
~W.O.M.B.A.T.
Ben Just isn’t worth it. Plus, you can tell Angie that you won’t stand for that and dis her.
Sweetie, the best revenge is to move on with your life. I know that you feel betrayed by your friend and your ex, but get over it. Life’s too short to dwell on negative things and negative people.
leave it alone move on and i could make things worse in the long run,
Wow…with friends like that, who needs enemies. Stay out of it…what goes around comes around and they will get theirs in due time.
one day, just go up to your ex-boy and make sure she is around and tell him in a sexy voice, "i sure did enjoy our last session togther, cant wait till the next time "….that shoudl get both of them riled up