Comments on: Ways to get revenge?? I need help with an ex-boyfriend AND an ex- bestfriend..? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2384/ways-to-get-revenge-i-need-help-with-an-ex-boyfriend-and-an-ex-bestfriend/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: WΩMBAT ωοmβατsen http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2384/ways-to-get-revenge-i-need-help-with-an-ex-boyfriend-and-an-ex-bestfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-11866 WΩMBAT ωοmβατsen Sat, 05 Dec 2009 21:41:57 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2384/ways-to-get-revenge-i-need-help-with-an-ex-boyfriend-and-an-ex-bestfriend/#comment-11866 ".......I know revenge isn't always the right thing to do and that time heals all wounds, but I would just like to feel better about my self through this......." Correction. Revenge is NEVER the right thing to do. It may satisfy your ego, for an hour or a day, but in the end it will only make you feel worse. It will make you more angry, more bitter, and make you feel even more alone. Isn't it bad enough that two people treated you badly one time? But now through your anger, bitterness, and vengeful thoughts, you *allow* them to cause you pain *every day*, again, and again? Basically, you have only two choices here. 1) Remain bitter for months or years. 2) Forgive, and move on with your life. I guess you have to ask yourself, what do you value more? Being happy, or holding on to that bitterness? When you get a splinter, do you allow it to lie under your skin and fester, constantly worrying it and working it deeper; or do you endure a moments pain, and pull it out? Good luck, whatever you decide. ~W.O.M.B.A.T. "…….I know revenge isn’t always the right thing to do and that time heals all wounds, but I would just like to feel better about my self through this……."

Correction.
Revenge is NEVER the right thing to do.

It may satisfy your ego, for an hour or a day, but in the end it will only make you feel worse. It will make you more angry, more bitter, and make you feel even more alone.

Isn’t it bad enough that two people treated you badly one time? But now through your anger, bitterness, and vengeful thoughts, you *allow* them to cause you pain *every day*, again, and again?

Basically, you have only two choices here.

1) Remain bitter for months or years.

2) Forgive, and move on with your life.

I guess you have to ask yourself, what do you value more? Being happy, or holding on to that bitterness? When you get a splinter, do you allow it to lie under your skin and fester, constantly worrying it and working it deeper; or do you endure a moments pain, and pull it out?

Good luck, whatever you decide.
~W.O.M.B.A.T.

]]> By: anita_ramaswamy http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2384/ways-to-get-revenge-i-need-help-with-an-ex-boyfriend-and-an-ex-bestfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-11867 anita_ramaswamy Sat, 05 Dec 2009 21:41:57 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2384/ways-to-get-revenge-i-need-help-with-an-ex-boyfriend-and-an-ex-bestfriend/#comment-11867 Ben Just isn't worth it. Plus, you can tell Angie that you won't stand for that and dis her. Ben Just isn’t worth it. Plus, you can tell Angie that you won’t stand for that and dis her.

]]> By: shea http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2384/ways-to-get-revenge-i-need-help-with-an-ex-boyfriend-and-an-ex-bestfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-11868 shea Sat, 05 Dec 2009 21:41:57 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2384/ways-to-get-revenge-i-need-help-with-an-ex-boyfriend-and-an-ex-bestfriend/#comment-11868 Sweetie, the best revenge is to move on with your life. I know that you feel betrayed by your friend and your ex, but get over it. Life's too short to dwell on negative things and negative people. Sweetie, the best revenge is to move on with your life. I know that you feel betrayed by your friend and your ex, but get over it. Life’s too short to dwell on negative things and negative people.

]]> By: rsc http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2384/ways-to-get-revenge-i-need-help-with-an-ex-boyfriend-and-an-ex-bestfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-11869 rsc Sat, 05 Dec 2009 21:41:57 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2384/ways-to-get-revenge-i-need-help-with-an-ex-boyfriend-and-an-ex-bestfriend/#comment-11869 leave it alone move on and i could make things worse in the long run, leave it alone move on and i could make things worse in the long run,

]]> By: diva9047 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2384/ways-to-get-revenge-i-need-help-with-an-ex-boyfriend-and-an-ex-bestfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-11870 diva9047 Sat, 05 Dec 2009 21:41:57 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2384/ways-to-get-revenge-i-need-help-with-an-ex-boyfriend-and-an-ex-bestfriend/#comment-11870 Wow...with friends like that, who needs enemies. Stay out of it...what goes around comes around and they will get theirs in due time. Wow…with friends like that, who needs enemies. Stay out of it…what goes around comes around and they will get theirs in due time.

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