Do you have a hard time going back to places that you and your ex use to go?
I did for a bit, but I’ve gotten over it and realized if I did that with every place, I couldn’t go anywhere.
What about you?
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No, I don’t miss going to the foodstamp office (because he never had a job) and the courthouse (because he wrote hot checks).
Well – my ex never took me anywhere so I don’t have that problem!
Just the street corner where we met. LOL…no, just kidding…I don’t really give a rats aszs about my ex so it doesn’t matter to me.
Never had a problem.
sometimes. like restaurants i would frequent. With an ex. then had to chose a new restaurant/.
Yes but you have to get thru it. The best way to do it is to build new memories there with someone else.
No, I have no problem with going anywhere, but I do have a hard time listening to Elvis…He loved Elvis and would always sing Elvis songs to me.
no problem at all
Yes, memories are haunting at times
I used to right after the divorce, it time to get over it, but there are still certain songs I can’t listen to.
Never had that problem…was married to my ex for 20 yrs and he never too me or the family any where so now I enjoy going everywhere….
Luckily my ex lives 2 hours away so I never have to go to any of those places. I would have had a hard time with it though, right after the break-up. You just need to make new memories.
I don’t have a hard time going to places, i do have a hard time listening to certain songs sometimes or going to shows that we used to go to. One of my friends asked me if i wanted to go see Otep with them on the 24th, I would go if I had the time to take off work, but it would bring back alot of memories of the ex asshole too, so I probably wouldn’t go anyway.
Yeah with past ex I use to have a hard time. But now that im engaged to someone else And in love with him I dont’ But i use to have to avoid places
No not really it would bring back memories but i would just shake it off and keep moving on with my day.
That means that this person touched your life in very deep ways. I had trouble in my own house back then. Everything he touched or used in my home was sacred to me. I could not go to places because the memories and the pain would hit me so hard it was ridiculous. I could imagine him there, hear his words and even remember his scent. It will never go away but you learn how to deal with it over time. I moved out of the state and it helped me a lot. He for sure made things memorable for me and i just feel grateful for life to allow me to experience love like that once in my life. It might not look like that for you now because you are obviously grieving.. it will later though… Keep your chin up!
Yes, to a degree. My ex really got me into playing pool. Then after we broke up, the only bars I felt comfortable in were the ones he took me to. And then he was usually there too. Since he was a shark, and made $ that way, it was really the only place we went together. I still think of him when I play pool, it sucks.
Not really. The place is just a place. The memories, for me, are more about who I was sharing them with. So going to the same places with a new person just means new memories. Next year I plan to go to Maui, where I got married to my ex, with my girlfriend. She knows I was married there and has no problem with it. Though, for her, it may just be morbid curiosity!
Not one bit..whats funny is that he takes all his present bimbos and exes to all familiar places I have been taken too…I have walk into places where i seen him and he has spotted me. Here’s another walked into a place with him and (I noticed everything) he spots one of his booty calls or do we call it the "ones" he is playing or cheatin with..I enjoyed it for I always knew and I enjoyed the game !!!
Yes, this use to be a BIG problem for me but, I also came to the conclusion that I would be trapped if I allowed that to continue.