how can i get my new husband to love Christmas again?
after his ex did things to hurt him,he now hates the christmas holidays and doesn’t want a christmas tree or anything to show the christmas sprit,to him it’s just a day off work,Please help me and tell me what i can do to put this back into his life again.
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First of explain to him how important the holidays are to you. Then do a 12 days of Christmas type thing for him. Watch Christmas movies and make cookies or something one night. Go ahead and get the tree and get him to help you decorate another night while singing along badly to fun christmas songs. Pretend you can’t reach a certain spot on the tree for an ornament and ask him to hang it for it you…then keep asking and handing him other ornaments. It’s hard to get the Bah-Humbug out of people when they’ve been hurt on the past holidays. Give him time and he’ll come around. If he loves you, he’ll amuse you and your cheesy antics and maybe even have a good time if he lets himself. Best of luck and hope you have a wonderful holiday season!
First of all he should not ruin the holiday for you because he had a bitch of a…..(whatever she was) He needs to quit feeling sorry for himself, who hasn’t had a bad relationship. Therapy is what he needs. It is cute that you are tiring to help him now, but that will get old quick. You need to make him understand that his actions are not fair to you, and even if he didn’t understand I would have my Christmas tree up anyway.
I feel the same as your husband. My wife broke our marriage which destroyed the joyous feeling of family togetherness during the holidays. My children are subject to splitting the holiday with both parents. I don’t know what would make me enjoy the holidays again. All I can say is please understand that the holidays are a tough time for your husband and his dislike of the holidays has nothing to do with you.
Therapy. Losts and lots of therapy