How will my boyfriend ever learn to love again? Will this relationship work out?
I have told my boyfriend everything about me. There is not a question about me he cannot answer. But, he never tells me anything about himself. He is 12 years older than me and is divorced from a 13 year marriage. He often makes comments about his ex-wife, and makes insults towards her husband of 3 years. I truly believe he in love with her, but he denies having feelings for her at all. He refuses to tell me anything about himself at all. I finally brought up to him that I think he is blocking people to ensure he does not get hurt. I told him he can have the same confidence in me as I have in him. He said he will never tell me anything. I just feel like all of these hidden feelings he has is really hurting our relationship. He continually analyzes me, yet he refuses to let me in at all. He can never be honest or serious and I really feel like he doesn’t really want our relationship to go any further due to him being hurt in the past. I don’t need to have intimate details of his past, but I need to know that he trusts me the way I trust him. I feel like he doesn’t even have real feelings for me because he doesn’t want to be hurt again. What can I do to get this to work out? Or is there anythign at all?
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you should get out of this relationship while you still can. You dont want someone who is uncaring and he cant love another person untill he loves himself first. Or if you really dont want to break up without trying talk to him about seeing a counselor, he obviously has many problems that have never been resolved.
Sounds like something he needs to work through.
Would he say the same negative things about you to someone else if it didn’t work out?
It seems like he\’s really cautious about his feelings, which only makes it unfair for you. Try talking to him about it, and telling him how you feel. if it doesn\’t work out, there\’s always other fishes in the sea