Pregnant wife thinks she will never love me again, plans divorce, advice?
Wife and I used to make out for literally hours and cuddle (never had sex b4 we got married) for about 6 months before we got married and she seemed to have alot of reasons why she wanted to marry me, she used to tell me she loved me all the time. I got her pregnant on our honeymoon Feb. 6th 09, and she was so happy and we found out after about 5 weeks that she was allready pregnant. One day she came in to the room and it was like she tried to force herself to kiss me and I could tell she didn’t enjoy it the same as before, she stopped letting me cuddle her, she stopped telling me she loved me, she also went off of her Paxil (anxiety) for the baby. I was on Paxil as well. Pretty soon I was fighting for our marriage and she was thinking about divorce, I got us into marriage counseling and got her onto Zoloft, it helped but not enough. Her only reason for divroce is that she doesn’t love me and that I irritate her and I smell etc. I have been fighting this for months and she has allready asked me to leave and I did just that and have supported her in making sure she has enough food and gas etc. It seems to me that the only reason gives me for wanting divorce is just her not having proper feelings, other than that we have alot in common and we don’t argue much at all, I’ve never yelled at her. She really is set on divorce though…
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i am curious for the answer, i am going through a similar situation, was married and loved for 3 years and when the baby got here on the 3rd year, she hates me and wants me to die. still 8 months later. every wrong thing i did became one too many, like perfect timing for disaster. i love my family but its hurts to have it torn apart.