Comments on: What do you do when you ex-husband of 3 years wants you back?

By: Rose T

Rose T — Sun, 13 Dec 2009 02:24:35 +0000

I think that you are the only one that can really answer that question. You need too ask yourself some questions and be completly honest with yourself in answering them. Ask yourself.."Do I Still Love This Man?" "Am I IN LOVE with him?" " What reasons did we Divorce 3 years ago?" .".Do I really want him back?"… These are some tough questions that need answers and you need too answer from the heart.
It’s good that you two parted as friends, not many can do that these days. There had too be something you both couldn’t resolve when you were married, or there wouldn’t have been a divorce. Your ex wants too be a family again, but just because you have a child isn’t a good enough reason too get remarried. In fact that would be the wrong reason!! Ask yourself the questions I have suggested and see how you feel. Don’t rush into anything. Good luck in whatever desision you make.

By: Lace

Lace — Sun, 13 Dec 2009 02:24:35 +0000

No one can answer this for you, you have to make this descision for yourself, if you heart tells you to do it, then do it, if not then dont! Listen to your heart!

By: leolady0765

leolady0765 — Sun, 13 Dec 2009 02:24:35 +0000

basically, it depends on wether you think the same way!? just because it suits him, doesn’t necessarily mean it’s going to suit you. you obviously divorced for a reason in the first place, what will stop the same problems that lead you there from surfacing again? i think the best idea would be to go to a marriage counsellor first, then make your decision.

By: DenMan

DenMan — Sun, 13 Dec 2009 02:24:35 +0000

Every marriage gets that dull routine into it and people tend to believe that the grass is much greener on the other side. We find out, (been there done it) … it is not true. What ever your hearts are yearning for may never reveal itself and maybe it is each other and you both are just blind to the fact. Sit down and make that list of the good and the bad and find out what side of the scale he really is on.

By: classy&sassy

classy&sassy — Sun, 13 Dec 2009 02:24:35 +0000

Ex’s are ex’s for a reason. Why is he wanting you back now? Wasnt the grass as green as he had hoped it would be? And what kind of wishy washy woman are you? Dont turn back now……move on and have some respect for yourself