IF you want your ex back, should you give her space or talk to her (please, heartbroken)?
We ended it because we didnt think we could handle long distance. But 14 days before she leaves for good, she gets a rebound BF ….who she seems happy with.
Please dont respond with : "let her go". Im curious here.
I find from many people that she still loves me. Although she doesnt want to get hurt by talking to me. Should I try to contact her, or give her space for a few months and see if she contacts me?
1- Many friends tell me that contacting her will upset her and make her hurt me even more. Just wait and she;ll come back if she still loves you.
2- others will say "you only have 1 chance, no regrets".
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Give her space. She doesn’t want you right now, so leave her alone. If she really loves you, her feelings will win out. Right now, it’s not looking like that’s the case.
IF she’s willing to maintain a LD relationship with this new dude instead of you, I’d let her go
let her come back to you. Im pretty sure she will. in the meantime talk to as many chicks as u can, show her u can replace her, n that she is nothing special. this will make her come back. n when she does, dont get too happy, still talk to the other chicks and make her feel like she has to win u over, cause shes not the prize, YOU are, ya dig?
Give her space and let her breathe. Sometimes people just need a little away time. Her rebound boyfriend is probably just a comforter until the bumpy ride is over (example, of course). She might just let you go, hate you, tell you how pathetic you are, etc and, that’s when you mustn’t try. If she doesn’t want you back, then she doesn’t. If she hasn’t said anything yet, maybe she’s just letting go for awhile. Or something else. Don’t contact her, let her want YOU back.
You need a soft approach, you don’t want to spook her by being considered desperate. You will definitely need to talk with her, but you need a detailed system to save you from making common errors and mistakes.
If you are in a hurry though, and want to get back your ex as soon as possible, then go with The Magic of Making Up. It is the cheapest guide available