Comments on: My husband wants space and told me he’s not in love with me anymore, what should I do? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2648/my-husband-wants-space-and-told-me-hes-not-in-love-with-me-anymore-what-should-i-do/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Freebird http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2648/my-husband-wants-space-and-told-me-hes-not-in-love-with-me-anymore-what-should-i-do/comment-page-1/#comment-14106 Freebird Sun, 13 Dec 2009 16:48:58 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2648/my-husband-wants-space-and-told-me-hes-not-in-love-with-me-anymore-what-should-i-do/#comment-14106 Actions not Words! Don't Say Sorry...Be Sorry! You have pushed him away...for years. He is now detached and doing his own thing. You need to win him back with actions that show you are willing to support and nurture him and the marriage. Counseling might help at some point...but right now, its up to you. Don't talk about what you are going to do. Just do it. Be strong and confident, and just show what he would be missing without you. Good Luck Actions not Words!

Don’t Say Sorry…Be Sorry! You have pushed him away…for years. He is now detached and doing his own thing. You need to win him back with actions that show you are willing to support and nurture him and the marriage.

Counseling might help at some point…but right now, its up to you. Don’t talk about what you are going to do. Just do it. Be strong and confident, and just show what he would be missing without you.

Good Luck

]]> By: not dead at 48 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2648/my-husband-wants-space-and-told-me-hes-not-in-love-with-me-anymore-what-should-i-do/comment-page-1/#comment-14107 not dead at 48 Sun, 13 Dec 2009 16:48:58 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2648/my-husband-wants-space-and-told-me-hes-not-in-love-with-me-anymore-what-should-i-do/#comment-14107 ooo you burnt some bridges. try counseling if you can get him to go ooo you burnt some bridges. try counseling if you can get him to go

]]> By: Suze http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2648/my-husband-wants-space-and-told-me-hes-not-in-love-with-me-anymore-what-should-i-do/comment-page-1/#comment-14108 Suze Sun, 13 Dec 2009 16:48:58 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2648/my-husband-wants-space-and-told-me-hes-not-in-love-with-me-anymore-what-should-i-do/#comment-14108 You can either high tail it out of there and give up or . . . You can start being the person your husband needs you to be. Show him how you feel. Prove to him that it is worth it to stay married to you. Do what it takes. If he wants to go out with friends, tell him to have a good time (don't ask where he is going, or when he will be back and for goodness sake don't text him). When he comes home, have a smile on your face and ask him if he had a good time. Let him say what or if anything about what he did and leave it alone. Trust him. Give him his space. Now, time for you to get a life of your own. You are also entitled to friends. Go find some and get a hobby. Concentrate on bettering yourself because you don't know what the future holds. Good luck. You can either high tail it out of there and give up or . . .

You can start being the person your husband needs you to be. Show him how you feel. Prove to him that it is worth it to stay married to you. Do what it takes. If he wants to go out with friends, tell him to have a good time (don’t ask where he is going, or when he will be back and for goodness sake don’t text him). When he comes home, have a smile on your face and ask him if he had a good time. Let him say what or if anything about what he did and leave it alone. Trust him. Give him his space.

Now, time for you to get a life of your own. You are also entitled to friends. Go find some and get a hobby. Concentrate on bettering yourself because you don’t know what the future holds. Good luck.

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