Is there a chance at all that i can get her back?
Me and my ex were together for 9 and a half months. We broke up because of arguments that were my fault. We were planning on getting eloped in January. She told me she wanted me to find the person she fell in love with and to realize the real reasons that i got with her in the first place. I did that and a whole lot more. Then family problems and other stress drove her to become emotionless and she couldn’t love anybody. I tried to show her how much i cared and wanted to help ease her pain. Then i was laid off from my job (only place i could really see her in person) and now after a month since then and no contact what so ever. She has a new boyfriend that i know is a liar and all around bad guy. Shes a good person and i feel fully responsible for her fall from who she really is and i can see shes somewhat lost. I saw here at a party recently and her new boyfriend tried to start a fight with me when i was standing up for her because a friend of his called her a b****. I wouldn’t fight him because i promised her i wouldn’t fight any new guy unless she gave me the word. before i left the party i let her know that i love her through my friend delivering the message since i wasn’t able to see her after that. It made her smile and she said she was sorry. I’m not entirely sure whats she was sorry for but i let her know once everyday that i love her. Then one time i text her that i love her and using her phone he told me to leave his girlfriend (her) alone. I told him "I love her and i let her know that everyday. If she wanted me to stop she’d say so." and plus i told him that i don’t listen to him i listen to her and i got nothing back after that. Is there a chance at all i can get her back?
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Man that kind of sucks. I’m sure everyone would love to say yes, but unfortunately this isn’t a magic 8 ball. You are leaving too much out of the story for anyone to know how SHE feels. We can see how you feel, but the wrong doer always feels worse (trust me I know all too well). The thing about it is that women just have more options then men, there is no need for her to put up with any b.s. especially if you’ve only been together 9 months. I know that seems like a life time to you right now, but I’m married almost 10 years and my wife and I are together even longer then that! And guess what? We still get into arguments and fight over stupid junk. The big difference and only reason that we’ve made it this far is cause about 7 years ago we started going to church, together. That’s it man, she’d have split long ago otherwise cause I am pretty straight foward, no beating around the bush kind of guy.
If this guy is a jerk she will realize it all on her own. You have some bias because every guy she is with that isn’t you will be a jerk. You know how much you care about her and you think no one else can care about her that much and that their all just after one thing. Sometimes thats right, but sometimes girls realize exactly what they are doing and how they are making someone else feel. Trust me if she is trying to teach you a lesson then learn it and run. Treat your next girl better, thats the answer bro, whether its her or someone else. You can say sorry all day long but it doesn’t take pain and memories away. It doesn’t take away the thought that you’ll be that way again either. I hope this helps.
are you christian ?
if you are a christian, don’t bother about her however much you love her, because if she liked in the first place, she wouldn’t have gone with someone else.
I’ve been there…
don’t go through that path , because it usually ends up badly.
consider as if she doesn’t exist until she do an action that makes you her boyfriend officially. until that, consider as if she doesn’t exist. I’m telling you this for your own good. and be careful of hackers who are hired and try to pull you down to put you in trouble by using fake identity , specially those hired by universities, companies and etc…
secure yourself. be ruthless and NEVER TRUST ANYONE EVER AGAIN.
one you and her both are making this very sticky. By sticky I mean there is a new guy in the mix and here you are playing the hero when that should be his job and everything. I will give you props for sticking up for her Im sure that got you some points with her but you have to remember that her new bf will get tired of you poking around his girl. if your her friend then make it clear but dont make waves with him and end up making her have to choose betwen you two caz it is not 100% sure she will pick you.