How to get ex-girlfriend back?
I dated my ex-girlfriend for a year. I met her parents several times. She was/is the perfect woman in my eyes. The only problem in our relationship was that she had a problem letting me be a part of her life. She would go days at a time without calling me. I didn’t expect her to call me everyday or even every other day. I never said anything when she went days without calling me. The Friday before Thanksgiving my ex-girlfriend sent me a text at 6 pm asking me if I wanted to go to the movies at 10 pm with her sister and brother-in-law if they decided to go. I replied yes, but I never heard from her one way or the other. I didn’t hear from her again until Monday night when she replied to a text message I sent her asking if we could talk. She seemed like she wasn’t in a talking mood. I assumed she was tired from work and I knew she had to get up early so I cut the call short. She didn’t call me back the rest of the Thanksgiving week. It’s Sunday night and I’m feeling ignored or even strung along. I overreacted because I felt hurt and sent her a text message saying I think she is a special person but I feel it would be best if I found someone closer to my own age and that I didn’t think she was at a place in her life where she was ready to be in a serious relationship. I should mention that I’m 32 and she’s 24. The next day I get a reply text stating she wished things could have worked out. I could tell I really hurt her. I immediately realized I made a big mistake by impulsively sending a hurtful break up text instead of calling her and discussing how I really felt about being ignored. I’ve been sending her text messages for a week telling her I love her and I was wrong and begging for a chance to make things right. She want reply to my texts or call me. I really love her and would do anything to get her back. My ex-girlfriend was homeschooled by her parents and still lives with them. She isn’t as independent as most 24 year old women. This could’ve been the reason she had a hard time letting me be a part of her life.
Does anybody have any suggestions on how I can get her back??? Serious responses only. I would really like to hear a woman’s perspective.
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Move on there is a reason your relationship is over.
wellll the reason she broke up with you was you werent there for her and the only way left to get her back is starting all over from being friends flirttalk play and then start the relationship again
be there for her earn her trust!
Hi buddy
Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.
Here are helpful steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Her To Get Back Together
You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting your ex girlfriend back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore her texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go
You must understand that …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can easily be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Being Flexible Is Very Important
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Instead, be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn’t take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. However, if you really want to get her back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. You can learn about the most popular and reliable guides in this helpful blog:
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Hope it helps.