So why am I sad that my ex has moved on so quickly?
I cant help but feel a little bit hurt that he is trying to move on so quickly, after all he was definitely the one who liked me more than I liked him. I know we have broken up and I shouldnt care but it seems like he also has become friends with certain people who I dislike and hangs out with them in places that I go to but he never went to before.
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You never know what you have until it’s gone.
It’ll get easier hang in there
you are not over him. plain and simple…
He didn’t move on, he’s just pushing the break up in your face.
Do you think your ex is sitting around wondering why why why??? NO. It’s normal to feel hurt when a relationship fails but life is just too short to sit around and dwell on the past. Why do you care if he is hanging out with people you dislike and hangs out with them in places that you go to? If he liked you more then you liked him then why are you the one having such a hard time letting go? He has moved on, quick or slow…….and it’s time you do the same.
Because for him to move on so quickly hurts and he acts like the two of you never happened. It will take time but you will move on.
Some people jump into a new relationship to try to mask the pain they are feeling.
if you broke up with him he is probably really hurt and wants to rub it in your face, though if he broke up with you than he still wants you or is trying to show he can do better. … i am only 13 aha, so i may not be as good in this type of stuff. sorry.
He is living Four the possibility of what each day brings, and has left the past where it belongs. You are obsessing about the whys, perhapses, coulda woulda shoulda and replayIng a them in your head like a broken record…. let the past go and create the partner you really want.
it’s understandable, you needed him to miss you a little, to mourn over the failed relationship, what about the emotional aspect was it all physical for him?
I think you just answered it yourself. During the relationship you clearly admit that he loved you more than him, so what does this tell us? That he felt unloved by you and needed a way to get over you fast. Sounds like he’s trying to make you jealous and make himself feel better at the same time. Even sounds a bit like you may have cared for him more than you thought. Maybe you two need to talk some things out.
Just remember a break up is like a death and there IS an actual period where people GRIEVE and we each do that at different paces and in different ways. HIS way might be to move on and ignore his feelings and loss and grief all together (like most men who avoid emotions) whereas YOU hang on to the loss and move on less quickly. IT doesn’t even mean he is less upset then you – just that he copes & deals with the emotions of the loss and break up differently then you.
Maybe he moved on while you were still together mentally and gone from your life later physically. He is probably using them to get back at you if he is showing up in your favorite places. I am surprised they are allowing themselves to be used like that.