Comments on: My boyfriend’s ex-girlfriend wants him to get back together for the sake of their child, what should I do? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2677/my-boyfriends-ex-girlfriend-wants-him-to-get-back-together-for-the-sake-of-their-child-what-should-i-do/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: derek http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2677/my-boyfriends-ex-girlfriend-wants-him-to-get-back-together-for-the-sake-of-their-child-what-should-i-do/comment-page-1/#comment-20873 derek Wed, 06 Jan 2010 12:44:07 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2677/my-boyfriends-ex-girlfriend-wants-him-to-get-back-together-for-the-sake-of-their-child-what-should-i-do/#comment-20873 I'm actually in this situation myself. Actually the pregnant mother of my child is what used to be the best friend of my girlfriend. But this situation caused issues in their friendship. They both want to be with me but i've chosen to be with my girlfriend. But i do have guilt that the mother of my child has to be alone through this even though i care about her, just can't see myself with her anymore. It really is a constant battle though. Jealousy on both sides. I'm constantly feeling the guilt and don't want the mother of my baby to be unhappy. But i don't feel it's right to be with someone when i love someone else and i dont want that example set with my child. Thats what i grew up with and my parents were miserable and only stayed together for the sake of us kids. But i wasn't blind and saw exactly what was going on. Basically i feel i've made the right decision. I’m actually in this situation myself. Actually the pregnant mother of my child is what used to be the best friend of my girlfriend. But this situation caused issues in their friendship. They both want to be with me but i’ve chosen to be with my girlfriend. But i do have guilt that the mother of my child has to be alone through this even though i care about her, just can’t see myself with her anymore. It really is a constant battle though. Jealousy on both sides. I’m constantly feeling the guilt and don’t want the mother of my baby to be unhappy. But i don’t feel it’s right to be with someone when i love someone else and i dont want that example set with my child. Thats what i grew up with and my parents were miserable and only stayed together for the sake of us kids. But i wasn’t blind and saw exactly what was going on. Basically i feel i’ve made the right decision.

]]> By: karina http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2677/my-boyfriends-ex-girlfriend-wants-him-to-get-back-together-for-the-sake-of-their-child-what-should-i-do/comment-page-1/#comment-15462 karina Fri, 18 Dec 2009 18:15:34 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2677/my-boyfriends-ex-girlfriend-wants-him-to-get-back-together-for-the-sake-of-their-child-what-should-i-do/#comment-15462 How old are you? If you're 25+ and ready to take the responsibility of having a baby... then yeah, go for it. But I want to tell you that once you have a child you would be tied down. No freedom to go anywhere anytime with out the baby. You cannot leave the house asap because you need to prepare the baby. I know this from my own experience. My man is married with 2 other children. And I thought he was amazing when we first met. I convieced because I wanted a baby not to keep him. In some ways having a baby draws men away because of the responsibility but at the same time its harder to break up because we do have a child. I am so happy i didn't get pregnant when i was younger, even though i wanted a child then. Knowing what i know now I am happy because I at least lived my life having fun. Now i can concentrate at being a mom in my late 20's. he might stay with you or not if you have a child. if you think about it why he left the other woman? if he really loves you then he would be with you. ANd reassure him that you would be a great stepmom for his son. maybe then he can think to himself maybe i can have both my son and the girl i love. How old are you? If you’re 25+ and ready to take the responsibility of having a baby… then yeah, go for it. But I want to tell you that once you have a child you would be tied down. No freedom to go anywhere anytime with out the baby. You cannot leave the house asap because you need to prepare the baby. I know this from my own experience. My man is married with 2 other children. And I thought he was amazing when we first met. I convieced because I wanted a baby not to keep him. In some ways having a baby draws men away because of the responsibility but at the same time its harder to break up because we do have a child. I am so happy i didn’t get pregnant when i was younger, even though i wanted a child then. Knowing what i know now I am happy because I at least lived my life having fun. Now i can concentrate at being a mom in my late 20′s. he might stay with you or not if you have a child. if you think about it why he left the other woman? if he really loves you then he would be with you. ANd reassure him that you would be a great stepmom for his son. maybe then he can think to himself maybe i can have both my son and the girl i love.

]]> By: Violet Pearl http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2677/my-boyfriends-ex-girlfriend-wants-him-to-get-back-together-for-the-sake-of-their-child-what-should-i-do/comment-page-1/#comment-14380 Violet Pearl Mon, 14 Dec 2009 14:22:19 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2677/my-boyfriends-ex-girlfriend-wants-him-to-get-back-together-for-the-sake-of-their-child-what-should-i-do/#comment-14380 Sounds like getting back with the woman he impregnated is a good idea. The baby would probably appreciate having 2 parents. Frankly, any man that abandons his girlfriend and their baby doesn't sound all that "amazing". I think you should dump him, unless you don't think you could do any better than Mr. "Amazing" with his family drama. Sounds like getting back with the woman he impregnated is a good idea. The baby would probably appreciate having 2 parents.
Frankly, any man that abandons his girlfriend and their baby doesn’t sound all that "amazing". I think you should dump him, unless you don’t think you could do any better than Mr. "Amazing" with his family drama.

]]> By: Starting Over http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2677/my-boyfriends-ex-girlfriend-wants-him-to-get-back-together-for-the-sake-of-their-child-what-should-i-do/comment-page-1/#comment-14381 Starting Over Mon, 14 Dec 2009 14:22:19 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2677/my-boyfriends-ex-girlfriend-wants-him-to-get-back-together-for-the-sake-of-their-child-what-should-i-do/#comment-14381 You need to let him decide this on his own but maybe let him know this.... Doing "what's right for his child" doesn't mean being with someone you do not love. He can still be an excellent parent w/o being in a relationship with the childs mother. Good Luck! You need to let him decide this on his own but maybe let him know this….

Doing "what’s right for his child" doesn’t mean being with someone you do not love. He can still be an excellent parent w/o being in a relationship with the childs mother.

Good Luck!

]]> By: Praying All Day http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2677/my-boyfriends-ex-girlfriend-wants-him-to-get-back-together-for-the-sake-of-their-child-what-should-i-do/comment-page-1/#comment-14382 Praying All Day Mon, 14 Dec 2009 14:22:19 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2677/my-boyfriends-ex-girlfriend-wants-him-to-get-back-together-for-the-sake-of-their-child-what-should-i-do/#comment-14382 u say he luvs u,but do u luv him to? dont try to convince him to stay w u. u cant force him. he is w u now, not her anymore. i understand about doing whsts rite 4 teh child. thats great. i say u 2 should stay together but let him c his son and x. u dont have to let him go completely. u just have to share him. now im not saying he can cheat on u, heck no. just talk to him about it n tell him how u feel. Good Luck ``-Anna-`` u say he luvs u,but do u luv him to?
dont try to convince him to stay w u. u cant force him. he is w u now, not her anymore. i understand about doing whsts rite 4 teh child. thats great. i say u 2 should stay together but let him c his son and x.
u dont have to let him go completely. u just have to share him. now im not saying he can cheat on u, heck no. just talk to him about it n tell him how u feel.

Good Luck
“-Anna-“

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