How can i get back together with my ex?
She broke up with me about a week ago. I’m thinking about trying to get back with her again on Christmas hoping that she would think it was sweet and possibly say yes. How can I do this without sounding desperate or anything? All help is appreciated!
Well we broke up because she said she didn’t want to deal with a relationship or boyfriend at the time and that I was trying to be too serious. She really doesn’t want a serious relationship at all. She also said that I was "too committed to her"
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Doing it on Christmas just oozes with desperation – she’s an ex for a reason
She wants you to call her, unless she is with someone. Nobody, especially women, like to be separated for christmas.
More details are needed to be sure, but if you just had a little pissing match and are having some cooling off time, then just call her up and ask her out.
Make it casual, easy going, and easy for her to accept.
Don’t make it seem like she will have to apologize or repent.
Just a nice, easy invitation to have a nice time together.
Be sure to introduce several bottles of wine and stay within easy reach of your (YOUR) apartment.
More detail why did you 2 separate?
why did she break up with you?? Just be yourself and see if she’ll take you back.
She broke up with you. Which means that you trying to get her back is only going to result in ruining her Christmas. Let her go. GAH! Why can’t people understand it when they are told that things are over? She dumped you. Move on. Let the poor woman have a decent Christmas without you butting in and crying in your beer.
I think it can be done, even though your case seems a bit difficult..
I think you need to give her some time and space.. At least wait until after christmas contacting her.
She will be thinking of you from time to time. Especially because you was so clingy – and if you respect her enough, to not contact her for a couple of weeks.. you’ll not be sounding desperate and needy.
The good news is that she has given you the reason why she broke up with you. So you need to reflect on exactly why you did as you did. And what else did change during your relationship?
You did manage to attract her in the first place. You need to find out what exactly it was about you, that turned her on. You need to address her concern. You need to focus on "improving" yourself.
And you need to make sure you’ll not end up making the same mistake again. When you’ve considered all that, you’ll be ready for step 2. This is the basic step of fixing a relationship and getting your girl back! It can be done.
I’ve attached a resource with gives you some vital tools. Keep cool for now, and do not act too soon.
Approximately 90% of all break up’s can be reversed if you have the understanding of you work with the human nature, instead of working against it. Being needy and desperate is the last thing you’d want to be right now.