Ladies, how important is it to you that your man be convivial, or perhaps submissive, with the help?
This seems to be the new rule now according to relationship gurus. "The help" being "waiters, bartenders, valets, etc."
If not "convivial" or "submissive," how would you describe how your ideal man regards servers? How do you regard servers? Please state your country of residence–it may make a substantial difference.
If these or similar adjectives work for you, please tell us why it’s important to you.
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With politeness and good manners?
I am in the UK.
he should just be nice, polite and respectfull of the ‘help’.
Canada
People in the service industry should be treated with respect. And if you’re not happy with the service, there is a way to complain- respectfully. I live in the U.S. These people need their jobs to pay their bills- just like everyone else.
Canada. I don’t really know why you need to analyze this so much; he and I just order our food.
It’s very important that he be friendly and polite. Not submissive. But treat them with respect, yes.
UK
Thanks for the lolz!
Now we can’t even think for ourselves about how to relate/respond to shop attendants, waiters and the countless other people we have small social interactions with on a daily basis but we have relationship ‘gurus’ to tell us how to behave!!
He should convivial (learnt a new word today) to a degree, never submissive and politely firm at all times. It’s important because of respect; there’s nothing else for it.
I’m not from or of the Middle East, but am living here.
In general my husband is polite to people like waiters etc. As far as I know he has never had a valet. I wouldn’t mind him being convivial, though he is not in general a very convivial sort of person. But I definitely wouldn’t like him to be submissive.
We are in the UK.
I think it is important to be polite to people who serve you, to be less than polite would be vulgar.