What are signs that your ex may want you back?
I am so confuse. from a guy perspective please? what are signs that you may want your ex back. for example giving this scenario. You was in a relationship for a year. You fell in love before even meeting this person. The person comes home and he moves to the same city for you. You begin this life together and things have there rough moments but you love this person immensely. You would do anything for the person. Now remember! You been together for a year and all of sudden things take a turn for the worst and its ended. The guy moves on in like a day or so. He tells you that the other girl was a friend and now she is his girlfriend and she is everything that he needs (really he just meet the girl) but his feelings and his love is for you but at he same time he has to move on with his life. You try to make him see that you love him so why would he do this. Do you see the confusion? AM I doing something wrong by holding on to something that seems so clear isn’t there anymore even though this guy still comes to my church, he calls me, he wants to see me, i ask him do he love me and he says yes but he cant because he have to move. NEED ANSWERS seriously!!
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Looking at your other Questions I have to say it looks like your ex has moved on now, and you need to as well.
As painful as it is the best thing you can do now is not even try to contact him for at least 3 months. By then he may have changed his mind about the other girl, but you might also feel better about moving on and getting a man who will really love you so much he doesn’t do what your ex has.
Get busy doing something useful in your church and maybe the pain will ease quicker.
all you can do is talk…that the best way doing it. you be ok just talk
I do not think that this man knows what he wants. He seems very fickle and needs time to sort out his priorities. I suggest you forget about him for now at least. Focus on yourself and being happy. If he truly cares for you, he will come back. If not, then another guy who truly appreciates what you have to offer will come along.
He may not know if he wants you back. That is why he is still calling you and stuff, he isn’t sure what he wants so he doesn’t want to lose contact with you in case he decides he does want you.
Your best play is to try to move on, or at least make it appear to him that you are moving on. If he thinks that your not sitting there waiting for him anymore, he will think longer and harder about what he wants. It may still not be you but either way, you will be moving on. If he comes back, then you can deal with that then. If he doesn’t, then you will already be on your way of getting past him. Good luck.
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