dating a widow…what if she tells you she doesn’t know if she can ever feel in love again?
we lived together for about six months before she told me this. she now wants no communication at all and told me to move on and date others….but when I di, she saw me and got very angry with me….I truly love her and would go back to her in a heartbeat….but how can I get her past the death of her husband and help her to love again. They were married for 14 years and he died suddenly. He has been gone for over two years now. She also lived with another man before me for approximately 6 months before she told him it was over. Her family and friends all liked me and we never had any arguements or conflicts….other than a business venture I tried and it failed….but I picked myself up and got on with the job I had before the business venture. She says that she just needs space to find herself and not have to "ANSWER" or be "RESPONSIBLE" to anyone. How should I go about getting her past her past and start living again?
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It takes time to grieve someone, if you want to be with her, just be very patient. Each day gets better, but she can and will love again, but that person will always have a piece of her heart and if you can get that through to her, that you are OK with it, and she can accept it, I don’t think there should be a problem. Take it slow though. and listen to her stories about her late husband, that may help her heal?
well if she doesn’t want you to move on she still loves you. but i think that you should give her space until she ready to either A( be with you or B(not be with you. but give her space and see what happens.