how to get my ex back when your in my situation. advice needed?
So, me and my ex just brokeup. i’m 15 and he’s 16. he wanted to breakup
because we don’t see each other as often as we would like to and i
wanted to breakup because i found proof of him cheating. now i gave him
a couple of chances to confess but he just kept tellin me to trust him
when he says he wouldn’t do it again (he cheated on me before but i gave
him a second chance.) i really care about him and want this to work
without him cheating on me. i wish it was just that easy but it isn’t,
its kind of hard for me to go over and see him even though our towns are
only 15 min. away. my mom doesn’t always feel like driving me. i also
think he cheated because i was too nervous too kiss him and it seemed
like i just didn’t want to. i have an alter ego with him sometimes, i
act bitchy in my opinion but im an actually sweet person and i want him
to see that. but its been four days and he hasn’t called or text me and
i think he’s still with that girl even though they don’t see eachother.
he also put that he was depressed as his mood on myspace. is there any
hope for us? i don’t want it to be over. my friend thinks i should call
him to talk it out and then make plans to see him next weekend. if so,
what should i say? i love him and hope that this can work, but if i’m
going to get hurt everytime then i’d rather just not do it agan.
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Winning back your ex boyfriend is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.
if you desire to get your ex back try following these steps:
1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of these negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can’t get your goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.
2.Don’t bother your ex boyfriend. Boys just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to feel better by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously sms him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it’s recommended to get some new makeup. more recommended things to get are new clothes and new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start doing some exercises and try to eat healthy foods. When you look good on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, others will easily see it. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back.However, if you really want to get him back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. You can learn about the most popular and reliable guides in this helpful blog:
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Hope it helps.