Requesting answers from the MEN only! What is the best way to possibly get him back?
I cared for my mom from 34 to 47 & she passed. Best thing that ever happened was the opportunity to love her ..I met a man 6 mos. after her passing. Admittedly, I was still in the caretaker mindset, & did way too much for him, cooking dinners 3 x’s a week, cared for him when he was sick & got little acknowledgment back. Since I wasn’t looking or expecting it to begin with I didn’t notice right away. To his credit, he was the first to say "I love you", he displayed traits like..dropping everything to help me come & come w/me even to a dental appt & take me himself, he (was) affectionate, & did ask me, though unofficially.."to get married", & run off to Vegas. I am 48 he is 50. Neither if us had been married, he lost his mother at 7, admits not much female influence in his life. He found me & was looking for a mate but financially totally unprepared yet expected me to feel secure. I never asked him for anything, neither did he. He became distant. I got mad & broke up 3x’s. He won’t talk
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If you tried to talk to him, then you’ve done all you can, and someone else will come along, or he’ll come around.
i realy dont no what to say sorry
It doesnt sound like you two are in love. He needs somebody that will love him and care for him not somebody asking for money. If you wanted money you should have married a sugardaddy when you where 23.