I want to save my marriage, what should I do?
We’ve been married for 8 months and almost every day I get upset about little things my husband says to me or doesn’t do and we get into fight. I feel like he is more into his work and not romantic and caring as I knew him before our marriage. He gets mad very easily when I tell him how I feel and he disagree with me. When I am upset, I don’t talk to him. Instead, I stay quiet and has an upset face and I wait for him to ask me what’s wrong. I think I am a bit more sensitive and egoistic. It is very difficult for him to pamper me every day. Lately, he stopped communicating and caring when he is upset and mad. I am good, loyal and caring wife and I love him and he loves me. However, if this keeps happening he might stop loving me and respecting me! Please tell me what to do. We both want to save our marriage.
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You sound so young,,pouting quietly giving him a guilt trip..expecting him to make you happy..you have it backwards.instead of pouting,whining,nagging,thinking about what you want him to do for you,think about what you can do to show him love.show him appreciation for his work and effort.
Don’t bother demanding romance,then if you get it,it’s not romantic anyway..give romance,give love..
to be married you need to think of making him happy.Not just think about him making you happy..
also,when you expect certain behavior you will be disappointed.
love him,except how he loves you and don’t tell him how to love you.think of it like this..if you give him a hug and and smile he will give you one back..so Give..
YOU HAVE TO CHANGE. THIS IS CONDITIONAL LOVE WHICH IS WRONG! YOU’RE ONLY HAPPY WHEN HE DOES CERTAIN THINGS FOR YOU? THAT’S NOT RIGHT.
Grow up and stop fighting over little things, he will stop asking what is wrong and will get quieter and quieter because he feels it does not matter what he does you are never satisfied. The man loves you and you him so really what is all the big fuss about. There are people with far more serious problems in life that cope.
For one, he can’t pamper you daily. However, you and he need to do something about argument skill.
these are difficult times and he could be having problems at work..
Give him space n love
And you thought marriage was about "love".
Ahh – to be ignorant again.
Marriage is not about love ! It’s about forgiveness and acceptance which you two don’t do at all!
You are both selfish and pridefull and demanding your way in everything. Hence – fights.
If you weren’t there – he’d have nothing to fight over.
You are the problem.
If he were not there – you’d have nothing to fight over.
He is the problem.
You really don’t have a clue. Question: how much time and money do you spend to be a professional in your job? Tons! And how much time and money have you spent to learn HOW to be married ? ahhh – NONE ! You just figured you knew it all. Now you know you know NOTHING !
There are hundreds of books on relationship(s). How about you START to find out who you really are and who your spouse really is?
Maybe start with "The Five Love Languages" (Gary Chapman).
I can see where you guys fail from this book alone.
I think you both have to grow up, marriage is not a game if both of you don’t make a effort it will be a disaster. leave the ego behind and start mending your marriage, it looks both of your are immature
No marriages survives without any effort form the either partner.