Comments on: How do I tell my husband, again that I’m not IN LOVE with him? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2817/how-do-i-tell-my-husband-again-that-im-not-in-love-with-him/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Mary C http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2817/how-do-i-tell-my-husband-again-that-im-not-in-love-with-him/comment-page-1/#comment-15647 Mary C Sat, 19 Dec 2009 11:17:51 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2817/how-do-i-tell-my-husband-again-that-im-not-in-love-with-him/#comment-15647 It seems like you've just about decided to give up on your relationship with him, that you feel you'll never be able to recover any romantic, loving feelings. Can you remember what you loved about him before, what prompted you to marry him? Has that changed, or have you just forgotten what attracted you in the beginning? If whatever that is, is still there, then try concentrating on those aspects of your relationship, finding a way to bring them out more. It's always easier said than done, but if you don't want to lose the life you've developed together, it's worth trying. If it was his sense of humor, try listening more when he's talking, pick up on his humor. If it was his looks, then spend a bit more time appreciating them. If it was his personality in general, again, try noticing his personality, ho9w nice it is ... etc. If what attracted you in the first place is no longer there, has changed, then THAT's what you need to focus on with him, explaining what it was and that it's no longer there, and that you'd like it back. He probably doesn't realize it's gone. I hope you are able to work it all out in a way that will allow you to have a wonderful rest-of-your-life. It seems like you’ve just about decided to give up on your relationship with him, that you feel you’ll never be able to recover any romantic, loving feelings.

Can you remember what you loved about him before, what prompted you to marry him? Has that changed, or have you just forgotten what attracted you in the beginning? If whatever that is, is still there, then try concentrating on those aspects of your relationship, finding a way to bring them out more. It’s always easier said than done, but if you don’t want to lose the life you’ve developed together, it’s worth trying. If it was his sense of humor, try listening more when he’s talking, pick up on his humor. If it was his looks, then spend a bit more time appreciating them. If it was his personality in general, again, try noticing his personality, ho9w nice it is … etc.

If what attracted you in the first place is no longer there, has changed, then THAT’s what you need to focus on with him, explaining what it was and that it’s no longer there, and that you’d like it back. He probably doesn’t realize it’s gone.

I hope you are able to work it all out in a way that will allow you to have a wonderful rest-of-your-life.

]]> By: ill answer u http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2817/how-do-i-tell-my-husband-again-that-im-not-in-love-with-him/comment-page-1/#comment-15648 ill answer u Sat, 19 Dec 2009 11:17:51 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2817/how-do-i-tell-my-husband-again-that-im-not-in-love-with-him/#comment-15648 well there are ways that you can tell him without hurting him well there are ways that you can tell him without hurting him

]]> By: dbikeguy1 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2817/how-do-i-tell-my-husband-again-that-im-not-in-love-with-him/comment-page-1/#comment-15649 dbikeguy1 Sat, 19 Dec 2009 11:17:51 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2817/how-do-i-tell-my-husband-again-that-im-not-in-love-with-him/#comment-15649 The problems with you give me his e-mail and I will tell him everthing The problems with you give me his e-mail and I will tell him everthing

]]> By: archie http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2817/how-do-i-tell-my-husband-again-that-im-not-in-love-with-him/comment-page-1/#comment-15650 archie Sat, 19 Dec 2009 11:17:51 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2817/how-do-i-tell-my-husband-again-that-im-not-in-love-with-him/#comment-15650 if you are not in love with him.. y u r worried to break his heart , r u scared of him... if you are not in love with him.. y u r worried to break his heart , r u scared of him…

]]> By: kayboff http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2817/how-do-i-tell-my-husband-again-that-im-not-in-love-with-him/comment-page-1/#comment-15651 kayboff Sat, 19 Dec 2009 11:17:51 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2817/how-do-i-tell-my-husband-again-that-im-not-in-love-with-him/#comment-15651 I guess his Marriage Vows just won't let him take no for an answer! I guess his Marriage Vows just won’t let him take no for an answer!

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