I really want him back, help?
I broke up with my ex but now I really want him back, but the thing is he doesn’t like me anymore and his best friend does.
He knows that I still like him lots, but despite knowing that he’s still trying to set me up with his best friend. How do I get him back and make him stop trying to set me up with his best friend?
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In split second of anger/imaturity/spirit of adventure/ experimentation – we often take decisions which we should not have taken. This in turn leads to regret and disappointment in future. Relationships are very sensitive which are usually tied by a very thin string of thread. When young, this thread is even more delicate which can be easily broken by any adverse wind. After all, youngsters take pride in making and breaking relationships as fast as the progressing world. But, sometime or the other, you would become serious and there might come a time in your life when you would yearn for your ex-boyfriend. If so, here are some effective tips on rebuilding of relationship.
But Wait – Before taking any step, you need to analyze the reason behind the breakup. Analyze or scrutinize your behavior and reactions to come at a conclusion. If at fault, accept your fault and rectify it. To err is human but you need to learn from your mistakes. Use your past to your advantage. Many a times, we often change unknowingly with time. Remember as to what went wrong in your relationship. Then try to be the same person your boyfriend had loved. Start communication but never sound too desperate to get him back in your life. After all, you should win your love, not snatch or beg. Start a casual talk, start meeting up- if not as lovers, at least as friends. Who knows, that spark of love might still light up. Most importantly, be yourself. Don’t change yourself to win back your boyfriend as that would be cheating yourself as well as him. If you were at fault for the breakup, just apologize. You won’t demean yourself by apologizing for your mistakes. Similarly, after couple of meetings, you can share your true feelings with your ex and leave the rest to him. Do not beg or plead as a long lasting relationship can be one in which both of you respect each other.
If this does not work then it is time to move on!!!!
Good Luck.>r
He’s moved on, now it’s your turn.
if hes thaaaat nice of a guy, maybe hes just trying to help his bestfriend.
but maybe you should just straight out tell him that you like him and NOT his friend.
you broke up with him? stop and think about why. Normally you have a good reason but you miss the attachment. do you really think he’s a different person? coming from a guy I don’t think there’s much you can do to get him back, you broke his heart and he either needs time or you need to outright say to him you were wrong and want him back and them be patient.
as to the best friend bit. keep saying no, out right, no. don’t give hints, we aren’t very good at picking up on those as guys. another thing is let him in on how much you want your ex back and not him.
I hate to say it, but you may have have to move on, a least for a little while. It seems like he may not be ready to re-open that can of worms just yet (possibly never), but what you need is to is have a honest conversation. Have a completely open and honest dialogue about why you broke up and explain to him that you think it was a mistake. If he doesn’t feel the same, maybe you can be friends, but continuing to focus on him in that way can only act as a detriment to your health. My advice would be to make sure he knows in no uncertain terms what your feelings are and if he reciprocates, great! If not, it’s time to move forward, painful as that may be. Over time, it hurts less, you meet others and one day, this won’t even matter anymore. I know it takes patience, but I have faith in you.