I cheated emotionally on my husband and now he found out I regret and want him back so bad?
I started to feel lonely and I start to feel like my husband didnt love me inside and out. So i start to look out of my marriage and now he found out I am so sorry for it I want him back so bad. I am willing to do anything and everything but i need help I dont know where to start or even if he will take me back i am scared…
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A cow never knows the use of its tail until he loses it. You know my dear, I have come to realize that sometimes when we create our messes, if we just back off (meaning don’t force it) with our reaction, permit the individual time to gather themselves then we might be able to view the situation differently.
If after a time your husband doesn’t take you back, it would appear he wanted out himself and you just provided him the opportunity.
Think of how he is feelin!!
Jeez. Maybe you should have thought that one out, eh. Or talked to your husband.
Oh Dear – now he does not trust you… You will have to work very hard to gain his trust again. I doubt if you will be able to do that. Good Luck
yesh…well you’ll have to gain his trust back which won’t be very easy. It will be a long process, there is no quick fix for cheating. If he’s willing try counseling.
You should start by trying to have a one on one conversation and tell him exactly how you felt before you did what you did. You could suggest counseling. Maybe that would help some. If he does not want to go to counseling maybe you should go by yourself. So you could show him that you are trying to repair what you did.
Not to be harsh but you should have probably just talked to him and told him how you felt. I know its hard but its not right to even start "looking" when you are commited, it puts your husband in a very bad spot. I caught my fiance "looking outside of our relationship" and he wants back but I don’t know if I can trust him. Your husband probably doesn’t know if he can trust you, so you need to give him time and space, and show him that he can. Nothing but time and alot of patience can fix things.
What do you mean by cheating emotionally and how did he find out? Marriage is hard work, but he made a commitment to stay with you through good times and bad. It’s not like you had sex with someone…you were just feeling insecure. You must have been feeling lonely for a reason.
I suggest getting some counseling to help your self esteem. Maybe at some point you won’t worry about how much he loves you…or maybe you’ll be able to ask him for what you need in the relationship.
It is a tough spot to be in. My wife did the same, I still have issues with trust. I know she is not sleeping with anyone. I feel betrayed, lonely, she said she did it for excitement. It will take a while. I planned a nice vacation for us, private and romantic. Hopefully this helps. Good luck!!!
Well how do you think he is feeling about this situation. What goes around comes around.