Getting back together with an ex boyfriend ?
Well, two years ago my first boyfriend of a year dumped me for my best friend. Twice.
Now, we’ve been good friends and his best friends tell me he likes me again. I’m weary and cautious about this, because I don’t know if two years can truly change a person.
However, I have changed since then. I used to be very insecure, clingy, etc. I am more confident now, and I know the meaning of personal space.
What do you think I should do? I may or may not like him again, at the moment I am unsure.
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When In doubt,,,don’t!
Why even risk hurting yourself again? It is NOT worth it. So he likes you hu?…Does he like anyone else too? The pain from the past is just going to cause more pain and arguing in the future for your relationship. Find someone new honey. What kind of advice would you give to someone else if they were in your shoes? You would probably tell them…DONT BOTHER>
but eh, its just my opinion. I hate it when people set themselves up for Failure. Heart ache hurts but You will only have yourself to blame if you let him hurt you AGAIN.
gargle his mayonaise and see if it makes you feel any better.
At the very least let him put it in your butt.
I have the exact same problem!
I debate this question everyday. I have come to the conclusion that since I am such a forgiving person that I will give him a chance, but keep myself semi detached from him until I know whether or not he is serious. This way I am still able to get out before I get hurt and I never have to wonder if we were meant to be or not.
It sounds like you’ve come along way as a person since your initial split. I would caution returning to a relationship that was clearly unhappy since it ended with him leaving you for your best friend. All the growing up you’ve done in the last two years will be lost if you get tangled up with this person again.
There are many men in the world and you grow more as a person by experiencing others lives within your own. I would try meeting new people and leave the dead weight behind you.
his best friend said he likes you again. how he has changed! he’s still the same little Wiesel don’t even go there.
I am in the same situation in the fact that my ex wants to be friends and i don’t know if i can stand that or like him again. But i think you should see the changes for yourself like the way he acts around you etc…. Give it time don’t keep it stuck in your head that he likes you cuz you heard it from friends. Give it space and time and you will know if it’s worth getting back together. GOOD LUCK**
don’t he seems like an a**whole, for god sake he dumped you for your best friend !!
Girlllfriend, no! Honey, you need to just for get this man. Ya dig? It just doesn’t seem worth it! Just leave him!
Don’t recycle.
Why are you still his friend even?
I’ve been that girl. He has a pattern. He dumped you not once, but twice. I assure you people don’t change.
I think your gut is telling you not to do this and that is why you have the feeling of being unsure. You know what to do. Just follow your instincts.
I believe it all depends on the way you feel about that person. I am very clingy to my boyfriend but over all i do give him personal space. If him and i where to every brake up im not to sure if i will go back due to the fact i feel as if there will be no reason! If we broke up if was for a reason and we couldn’t fix it then so what makes up think we can fix it now?!?!?! Sooner than latter the same problem will come back to hunt you. THERE’S NO NEED TO BACK TRACK!!!