We broke up, but i know he still loves me. How do I get him back?
My boyfriend and I have been together for a good 7 months. He has a 3 year old daughter whose mother hates me, and up until a few weeks ago my boyfriends mother was very hot and cold with me aswell. Basically we had a fight infront of his child and he flipped out on me and said i was turning him into a monster,. Mind you we were in the process of getting a 2 bedroom apartment which I now live in alone. He broke it off saying that we should only see eachother when his daughter is not there, I feel as though he should want to get out of his parents house at 26 and give his daughter a better life. His family is way too into our relationship and now both families have tainted opinions. He came over yesterday and told me he hated me, that he never wanted to be with me again, heard i cheated on him (which is a lie told to him by his ex’s uncle) anyway he basically cut me up. I told him I wanted my TV back that i bought for his bedroom bc it was supposed to come with us to our apartment, that turned into a huge argument over a 2 way and both of our families were yelling in the background. I talked to him late at night and he and i were both crying, we feel as though we finally understand how to make our relationship work but now it might be too late, do i really want to be with someone whose family blames everything on their sons girlfriends and scares every girl away? and do I want to be with a guy who is still taking orders from his ex *(who HAS a new boyfriend by the way) He told me to call him after work today, and he is getting his daughter tomorrow, i want to see him tonight, i miss him so much, but so much damage has been done. what should i do?
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I think you should move on. He comes with so much baggage with his ex and complications. If he has a daughter and is 26 and still living at home I think that’s a sign. He isn’t independent. His daughter is his main priority and this forms a bond between him and her mother. You deserve to be in a relationship where a guy can commit to you 100% and who has a family that loves you. Don’t surround yourself in a toxic environment. I’m not doubting you two had some great times and that you love him but i think there will always be dramas going on in your life if you get back together with him. Sweetheart if he really loves you, he’ll see how you feel and how his situation impacts on you and get up and do something about it like change, become independent and control his ex and his family. The fact that he’s not doing that and that you’re the one going back makes it clear. Get out while you can and keep those good memories. Make a fresh start while you’re still young.