Will I ever get over him and love again?
We broke up on February 2nd because he was seeing another woman behind my back. I have been out on several dates with other guys and I’m now dating someone steady but I just can’t feel anything. I was with that a**hole for 6 years and I really loved him more than anyone else I have ever been with. He hurt me so deeply that I don’t think I can ever love again!! Please tell me it will get better!
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It WILL get better.
Time heals all wounds and wounds all heels.
More of your energy will be wasted in hatred than in forgiveness—until you finally allow yourself to forget and move on. Whether or not forgiveness is deserved, you have to just let it go.
You can forgive without giving up your opinion of someone’s bad actions or attitude. You just have to give up the anger, frustration, or sadness that’s eating you up. Forgiveness is not about making the other person feel better or worse, but about letting go of your grudge, even if you never see or hear of that person again.
Forgiveness takes place inside the person who has the change of heart, not the person who is forgiven. Granting forgiveness means you have risen above the conflict, not that you condone or give in.
To forgive heals the wound; to forget heals the scar. So, forgive, and then forget. Really.
i’m going thru the same thing.it hurts real bad .i feel an emptyness inside.all i want to do is be happy. its harder to move on than people think.it takes a while
im going through that too. ummm id say just let time take over sorry i cant help much T-T
I moved on after my first. 6 years is a long time, you won’t get over it straight away but you will get over it. Don’t see him, don’t speak to him, have fun/good times with other people to prove to yourself that you don’t need him to be happy.
If you keep thinking you’ll never love again, you might never love again. you have to think positive. This guy is a jerk. He cheated on you. Be grateful you didnt find out even later. You deserve better. I can already tell be your question that you’re a sweet person. You will love again. I think everyone tells themselves that after a bad breakup and then when they find someone new they say "I’ve never loved like this before." Good luck!!
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yeah, its going to take time, maybe a lot of time, but the best thing to do is go out with your girl friends, they are the best solution to anything!!!! go have fun and live a bit, get used to life without him and everything will be so much easier, try talking to another guy just to get your mind set on what else is out there, and not just him, and your friends are a great help, just go have fun and do what you couldint when you were with him. Good luck!!! and HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!
wow first let me say im sorry. he sounds like a jerk and he missed out on someone who truley loved him deeply. Its going to take time becuase six years was a long time. If you dont feel anything with this person end it and dont waste your time, maybe your not ready to start dating again. you should try to spend time reading with your friends, do thingsd that make you happy and will help you keep your mind off of this.
yes you will get better but that comes with time .
and youll meet someone specail promise
you will definitely get better.
as time go by, you will forget him without even noticing.
time is the greatest healer.
so give yourself some time to recover,
get back on your feet and start walking down the path of life again.
soon you will meet someone along the way,
and fall in love all over again.
Well, if he did hurt you a lot… there’s no thinking of turning back to him. You’ll just exposing yourself to be hurt again. Get over him. Here are some steps that might help to get over him… 1. You may feel really low and completely unmotivated right now, but if you can force yourself at first to take these steps, it will get easier!
2. Give your friends a call and setup a time to do something fun.
3. Do the things you used to enjoy but were not able to do when you were dating your ex.
4. Throw yourself into the activities you’ve been thinking about getting involved in, but haven’t had time for.
5. Let yourself be around your ex.
6. If you feel like you want to get back together, repeat steps 1-5.
7. If you’re comfortable being around your ex and don’t feel the need to slip back into your old relationship, congratulations! You have moved on with your life!
Tips:
1. When a person is in a serious relationship, sometimes s/he may put less effort into maintaining friendships. This means you’re going to have to be the on to take the first step in repairing your friendships.
2. Sometimes a person can identify his/herself by the relationship (ex: seeing yourself as ‘Ashely’s boyfriend’). This can be hard to deal with when the relationship is over and you’re left without an identity.
3. Getting over someone is a tough, but you’ll learn a lot about yourself and the kind of relationship you want for the future.
But if you really love him that much, and you know to yourself and you know it from the heart that he will NEVER hurt you again… grab it..but please be careful, don’t let him hurt you again and ruin your life…