Comments on: Will I ever get over him and love again? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2909/will-i-ever-get-over-him-and-love-again/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Alema Pequoia http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2909/will-i-ever-get-over-him-and-love-again/comment-page-1/#comment-16462 Alema Pequoia Tue, 22 Dec 2009 09:36:11 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2909/will-i-ever-get-over-him-and-love-again/#comment-16462 It WILL get better. Time heals all wounds and wounds all heels. More of your energy will be wasted in hatred than in forgiveness—until you finally allow yourself to forget and move on. Whether or not forgiveness is deserved, you have to just let it go. You can forgive without giving up your opinion of someone’s bad actions or attitude. You just have to give up the anger, frustration, or sadness that’s eating you up. Forgiveness is not about making the other person feel better or worse, but about letting go of your grudge, even if you never see or hear of that person again. Forgiveness takes place inside the person who has the change of heart, not the person who is forgiven. Granting forgiveness means you have risen above the conflict, not that you condone or give in. To forgive heals the wound; to forget heals the scar. So, forgive, and then forget. Really. It WILL get better.

Time heals all wounds and wounds all heels.

More of your energy will be wasted in hatred than in forgiveness—until you finally allow yourself to forget and move on. Whether or not forgiveness is deserved, you have to just let it go.

You can forgive without giving up your opinion of someone’s bad actions or attitude. You just have to give up the anger, frustration, or sadness that’s eating you up. Forgiveness is not about making the other person feel better or worse, but about letting go of your grudge, even if you never see or hear of that person again.

Forgiveness takes place inside the person who has the change of heart, not the person who is forgiven. Granting forgiveness means you have risen above the conflict, not that you condone or give in.

To forgive heals the wound; to forget heals the scar. So, forgive, and then forget. Really.

]]> By: derek m http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2909/will-i-ever-get-over-him-and-love-again/comment-page-1/#comment-16463 derek m Tue, 22 Dec 2009 09:36:11 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2909/will-i-ever-get-over-him-and-love-again/#comment-16463 i'm going thru the same thing.it hurts real bad .i feel an emptyness inside.all i want to do is be happy. its harder to move on than people think.it takes a while i’m going thru the same thing.it hurts real bad .i feel an emptyness inside.all i want to do is be happy. its harder to move on than people think.it takes a while

]]> By: Scoop http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2909/will-i-ever-get-over-him-and-love-again/comment-page-1/#comment-16464 Scoop Tue, 22 Dec 2009 09:36:11 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2909/will-i-ever-get-over-him-and-love-again/#comment-16464 im going through that too. ummm id say just let time take over sorry i cant help much T-T im going through that too. ummm id say just let time take over sorry i cant help much T-T

]]> By: Benino http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2909/will-i-ever-get-over-him-and-love-again/comment-page-1/#comment-16465 Benino Tue, 22 Dec 2009 09:36:11 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2909/will-i-ever-get-over-him-and-love-again/#comment-16465 I moved on after my first. 6 years is a long time, you won't get over it straight away but you will get over it. Don't see him, don't speak to him, have fun/good times with other people to prove to yourself that you don't need him to be happy. I moved on after my first. 6 years is a long time, you won’t get over it straight away but you will get over it. Don’t see him, don’t speak to him, have fun/good times with other people to prove to yourself that you don’t need him to be happy.

]]> By: manny:) http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2909/will-i-ever-get-over-him-and-love-again/comment-page-1/#comment-16466 manny:) Tue, 22 Dec 2009 09:36:11 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2909/will-i-ever-get-over-him-and-love-again/#comment-16466 If you keep thinking you'll never love again, you might never love again. you have to think positive. This guy is a jerk. He cheated on you. Be grateful you didnt find out even later. You deserve better. I can already tell be your question that you're a sweet person. You will love again. I think everyone tells themselves that after a bad breakup and then when they find someone new they say "I've never loved like this before." Good luck!! Please answer mine? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Al6Y8ieZoZZrU5e3jHNuOiXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090603120518AADokOg If you keep thinking you’ll never love again, you might never love again. you have to think positive. This guy is a jerk. He cheated on you. Be grateful you didnt find out even later. You deserve better. I can already tell be your question that you’re a sweet person. You will love again. I think everyone tells themselves that after a bad breakup and then when they find someone new they say "I’ve never loved like this before." Good luck!!
Please answer mine? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Al6Y8ieZoZZrU5e3jHNuOiXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090603120518AADokOg

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