Will she ever love me again?
Me and my ex were together for 2 years. We were really in love, and like most couples we had a period where we were off and on. And on one of the "offs" she spent the night with one of her male friends and she kissed him, then she told me about it and she said all that happened was a kiss and i believe her, it hurt but i got over it and i took her back. A few months later i shipped out to the "NAVY" and i cheated on her with a girl that i met while i was in.
When i got out she asked me if i cheated on her while i was in the navy and i denied it . Later on i treated her really badly for alot of reasons i still havent figured out, but it was no worse then how she treated me in the beginning. Then we split for about 10 months and she got into a new relationship 2 weeks after. So we ended up talking on myspace and i told her the truth and now she broke up with her bf but says that she dosent think she can ever love me again, but i noticed that she still acts the same. is there any hope?
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I would wait a while to see how things play out, because if you two were meant for each other than you be together. The hardest part in relationships is waiting things out and I think that is the problem with todays divorcing rate. When one thing goes wrong people think it is the end of the world and break off relationships. My advice would be just to hang on until you are ready to let go or until things start up with you and your ex.
yes
Sounds like you might have a chance…but it’s going to take some time. You guys have had a streak of bad luck and it seems like niether of your were honest and completely invested it the relationship…if you do get a second chance, make sure things are different.
i think so
and if there isnt
then move on
if you can
Love is lost here in your relationship. The constant cheating to get back at one another will continue. Don’t believe her when she say that they "just kissed". I don’t think you did. You are still in love and she may be also but there will always be a trust issue there.
There might still be something there. But you both have to forgive and forget, and cant repeat the same mistakes again. Learn from what happend. With you, you have to learn to be forgiving, she openly and honestly told you what happend, you want someone who is honest right. And I’m sure she does too, you should tell her what you did, you prolly treated her like crap because subcontiously you feel guilty. Tell her what you did, but thats its all in the past, you have forgiven her, and hopfully she can forgive you too. Only time will tell, but tell her your willing to give it another chance.
there is always hope for anything and everything,and what she needs to learn is that everyone makes mistakes.we are all human,and we all make mistakes and if she was a decent person she will relize that too…
Why bother if you continuously break up?
no way man. u broke her heart now shell nevr be the same. gosh poor girl. now bout u i feel sorry 4 u 2 becus she started it. it coud have been pretty but no all hope is gone. i hope u learn from this and move on on on………………..
i think yes, maybe she is just waiting for you to tell her..
you know women are fond with the details…they want their men to be honest and very appreciative about how they look etc.
better tell how you feel to her…..
No! Maybe all the cheating and lies that went on in the beginning were for a reason! I think that you both r just on a different page! U should just start talking to someone else! Good Luck!!!!
NO…I am very sorry. Do not waste your time or hers. Learn from your experience and do not be dishonest again. An eye for an eye only makes the world blind. No excuse to treat her bad just because she did it first. The trust is gone. Go and experience life if it is meant to be it will happen. Right now you both need to go separate ways to learn how to be happy without each other. Find yourself first then re-enter the relationship if it is still there.But no right now. I’m sorry!
Of course any relationship has possibilities IF memories would just mind their own business. A relationship CAN work out between you both as long as the two of you don’t QUESTION the other about all the "here and there’s" with others. If both of you start a relationship together it will have to be on new ground and with new commitments to each other. Without this, it won’t work. One thing you have going "against" you is being in the Navy. You can’t keep an eye on her and she can’t keep an eye on you and it WILL build mistrust, especially after all you both have been through already. If she thinks she can’t love you again, being away also won’t help heal these feelings she has. It’s a 50-50 shot, and it’s up to you if you want her bad enough but don’t be too disappointed if she doesn’t put in her 50%………
There is always hope and His name is Jesus! You need to work on yourself and get your heart right and then and only then will you be a good lover, husband, friend…remember sex is lust and love is love
Hope for getting her back? Yes, definitely. Hope for making this relationship work? No, I don’t think so. She’s cheated, you cheated. That doesn’t sound to me like two people who work well together. Find someone else and move on.