How do i get him to come to me ?
I was invited to my guy friends house
just to hang out and what not with my friend
my crush will be there
i like him and i think he knows this
but i don’t want to admit it to him
i liked him before but we had a falling out
and now i want him back as a friend and a possible love interest
i want to know how i can get him to come to me
i don’t want to be clingy
so how do i get him to come to me at our mutual friends house?
oh yeah i am wearing a yellow top with purple skinny jeans i know that is a random statement but i didn’t feel like putting up another question
please help me answer this question?
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Say hello with a beautiful smile, even a quick one,
then act uninterested.
Be outgoing with everyone & smile- show everything that’s positive about you. & talk to other guys, but don’t flirt too much. Just be charming (big difference).
Then when he comes to you, act interested, but don’t flirt too much. JUST BE CHARMING (smile, make jokes, bring other people into the conversation)
show him you are extreemly happy and be rlly sexy and look the hottest you can. This will get him to notice you and come up to you.
Go to him! Oh yeah and purple skinny jeans? What ever happened to blue jeans? I guess they had a "falling out" too.
do something that requires you to come closer to him.spill a little water on him,"accidently"fall on him or something around the lines of that.
just dress nicely and flirt and he’ll come running to you and if you’re attrative that’s a bonus
Make sure you don’t ramble on about nothing during a conversation, that’s the first clue that you like someone. It shows nerves. Also, don’t bring up any real serious topics unless he starts a serious conversation. Just be yourself, and don’t act stupid or slutty. Good luck.
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wear like a tight blue top– not yellow!!!!!!!! especially if hes not a lakers fan… just be careful of what you say and do remember actions speak louder thn wrds "P
tell him how you really feel
I read that like poetry
Yell shirt and purple skinny jeans? YIKES.
anyways, be yourself! if you want him back then act how you did before you even knew him or when you first started to. Be yourself, and flirt abit. It’s that simple!
What’s the problem with going to him?
Yeah, cause you’re clearly not confident. Cause boys LOVE not confident girls! *Insert eye roll here* Seriously. What are you? 11? Get over yourself, and go talk to him.
Talk to him about somethings he likes sometimes hang out with his friends an to ask him if your shy write him a letter and give it to him thats what i do
play a game with a bunch of people including him, like 10 fingers, would you rather, ect. its fun and you can find out valuable info(: good luck!
ps. please dont wear purple skinny jeans.
first off sweetie take OFF that outfit plzzz omqqqqqq too get a guy back wher som nice blue jeans skinnys n a cute shirt or somethn but plzz dont wear no bright yellow ass skinny jeans not cute n ummmm just dont flirt with him that much dont make it seem like you really desperate to have him back be cool be yourself and hav him com on to you!!! or say if your friends are there n its like 4 girl and 4 guys try to see if your freidns can take there guys somewhere else where it just leaves you 2 together and maybe you can spark a convo! take OFF tha damn outfit
Hmm, lol how funny, people actually do this prior to everything huh.
Anyways, it sounds like you guys aren’t too close. If that’s true, then all I have to say is to talk to him! Most people are scared of making a conversation with their crushes, but that’ll only keep him away. Just strike up some random conversation about what’s happening, like popping into those guys’ conversation! Go with the flow! If you like him, just make sure you’re focus into knowing him first! No need for any "love" yet. Friendship over time will help much more.
You need to be easy to be with but not so easy to get. Be a little vague about what is going on in your love life; be a little mysterious, (by not telling him much of anything). Kinda keep him in the dark, don’t spell everything out to him. This will take strong self-discipline on your part. above all, don’t chase after him, let him pursue you. Don’t text him or phone him, let him text you, and you respond to his text. Leave it at that and don’t try to keep the texting going; after 10 minutes, politely excuse yourself and move on to something else… after all, don’t you have a life? You should give that impression. He should get the impression that you have a life outside of him.
you should go up to him and say hi and talk to him the way you did when you were friends. try bringing up and old joke that you laughed about once when you were friends. Remind him what a great friend you were and he’ll realize how much he missed you’re friendship. Start with friendship then maybe romance will follow once you guys get to know each other again.