If your boyfriend’s ex girlfriend contacts him to get back together, should I be worried?
I’ve been with my guy for nearly six months and it has been fantastic! Only yesterday he told me that his ex girlfriend contacted him, as she wants him back. He told me that she approached him first and then nine months later she dumped him. Six months later we met and its been wonderful, we are so in love with each other. Should I be worried about his ex?… please help.
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U should have trust and faith in ur love and ur self.Dont try to harrass him for that.he wont leave u.
You need have trust with you boyfriend. You can’t doubt him. If you say you are in love he won’t take her back. The question shouldn’t be, "should i worry about his ex?" it should be, "do i trust my man?" GOOD LUCK!!
Only if he continues to communicate with her.
Why did he tell you?
Its nice that your boyfriend told you the truth, but its normal to worry, I know i would…Let your boyfriend know that you are worried and ask him if there is a possibility that he might go back to her…Good Luck!
Out of respect for you, he should tell her he doesn’t want further contact with her. If he is talking with her or "trying to be friends" with her, I would be worried.
just ask him if he still likes her
if he does than be worried
just beat up the other girl.jk
good luck with that
You can be worried and you cant be worried. If you guy really cares about you and really loves you, he will just ignore his ex g. If he doesn’t really care and love you, he will dump you. Good luck!
It’s normal to be worried, when I was going out with this guy Stephen, we went out into the city. We had to catch a train on the way there but his ex was there and tagged along. I was furious, but when she started to flirt continuously with him I got worried. Tell your boyfriend how worried you are. Then (this will sound difficult) ask him if there is actually anything to be worried about. Remind your fella of how much pain she put him through when she broke up with him. That might make him see sense a bit more and be certain that you two are IN LOVE!!!
Hope this helps!
Not if he doesn’t give you any reason to be. He should let his ex know that he’s in a relationship and that he is not interested. He should be open about her contacting him and what he said to her just to relieve any concerns that you may have. After all, he did tell you about her contacting him. Since you two share something really good, I don’t see any real need to be worried. Trust him to do what’s right and not worry over your own fears. Until he starts acting differently, you should give him the benefit of the doubt and enjoy your time together and what you two have. : )
umm..if i tell u don’t be worry, i will be lying. but at least he’s being frank with u. when a guy is frank with you about this , it means he really care about u, and he still has you in his mind. so ya, if you guys are so madly in love, chances are , it’s slim for him to go back to his ex.
maybe you can ask him casually (not pressuring) about what he thinks about her question.
if he needs time to think, let him be. give him some space.
if he says no, he should reject his ex proposal immediately. Its never a good thing to drag this kind of thing. as it might affect your relationship with your bf.
literally this just happened to me last night. Now we are not exactly together, but we are seeing eachother we talk everyday we go on dates, so i believe its safe to say we are dating, even if he doesnt want to put a label on it. anyway, last night he told me his ex called him to tell him she had a new phone number and he told her he was out of town or just blew her off or whatever. I asked him if he wasnted to further talk to her, and he said no. But im still worried. I really like this guy alot and we have been through alot to get to this point we are at. I just dont want to lose him…I dont want to ask him bc i know it will just trigger a fight. I know he has feelings for me too, he tells me all the time how much he thinks about me, how cute i am, beautiful, how nice i look, whatever. I just hope he doesnt do anything stupid.
I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now I have a 2 year old and just got out of a relationship. I met this wounderful guy unexpected, my life has never been more wounderful since the day I met him. He is always telling me how wounderful I am how beautiful I am and how much he has fallen for me. I finally let him meet my daughter and he both are so cute together and he really like her and told me ” he wants to be apart of me and my daughters life”. but the other day he hungout with his EX-girlfriend because he used to watch his EX’s sisters kid and was a huge part of this life. So he spent the day with her and the little boy he did not tell me at first until I brought it up it started a huge fight and he told me basically I have to understand that he is going to be apart of his life, which I understand because he was in his life for almost 2 years. But I told him how I felt about hanging with his EX and he told me that he is going to see her from time to time, and that she is always welcome at his house, but he also said it won’t happen again. He has me so torn and upset, I told him I can’t conrtol how hanging out with his EX makes me feel and that I will never be okay with it. He said there friends nothing more. Idk?? what to do at this point. I don’t want to loose him but am I wrong for feeling this way ?