how do i tell my ex i want to be back with him?

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1. A Very Helpful Guy says:

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   Mika,

   Hello, I’m sorry that you and your husband have broken it up. The bad news is you’re probably feeling pretty crappy right now. You probably feel hurt and confused.

   The good news is, even if you feel totally miserable and feel that all hope is lost, it’s not. You can get him back if you really want to get him back. You have to form a plan and stick with it. This is where most people make the biggest mistake.

   The most natural reaction most people have is they want to just talk to their ex all the time. They want to text them, message them, email them, call them, etc…This is completely understandable. It’s human nature.

   Even worse is what people usually say when they do get in touch with their ex as I just mentioned above. They usually tell them how much they love them, how much they miss them, and how much they want them back, etc…

   Again, this seems like a good idea, but it’s really not a good idea. When you do this, you’re actually pushing them further away from you. If you try to contact him and it hasn’t been long enough and you say the wrong things you can actually jeopardize your chances of getting him back.

   So, what can you do?

   -Cut off all communication for a 2-4 weeks. Yup, that means no email, no texting, no IMing, no phone calls, etc…

   -Decide if your ex is really worth getting back together with. You’ll have to do some honest soul searching.

   -Start hanging out with old friends, get a new hobby, in other words, stay busy.

   -Start exercising if you’re not already. The exercise will help you to feel good and to look good.

   -Date some other people. This one besides communication may be the hardest. People who want their ex back generally, don’t want someone else. This is understandable, but it’s good to get out and meet new people and do fun things with them. You can be honest with the person and tel them you’re not looking for anything serious. It will help you lead a busy life and also will help to trigger some jealousy in your ex.

   Good luck Mika, I hope you follow these tips and it works out for you. If you would like some more in depth information besides what I just wrote, check out my source link. There’s in depth information there and a way to get a day by day plan you can put into action that will give you the best chances of getting your ex back.