I want him back!?
My bf broke up with me over the weekend because we’d been getting into lots of little spats last week. I tried to explain to him that it was probably because we both have exams, and I’ve been worrying about the summer (how things would work, etc.). He said he realizes that, but he thinks this is the best decision. He told me he still loves me and wants to hang out a lot. I told him that I miss him, and he said he misses me too, and he hates having to do this, but sometimes we have to do things that aren’t easy. He said he thinks we’ll work better as friends.
I’ve tried to tell him how I feel, but how do respond when you tell him you still love him and he says, "I know, I still love you, too, and I always will?" I really want him back – he’s been indecisive in the past – I’m hoping he’ll realize he made a mistake.
What do you think? What can I do?
I’m 23, he’s 24. We’ve been together for 9 months.
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Give it a little time. If you push him now it could backfire on you. In a little while give him a call and ask him to give things another try. Good Luck!
i know…it really hurts but you gotta let him go if he’s not taking you back…you’ll get over it eventually and the sooner you move on the easier it will be…
i know you miss and love him, but maybe he just wants space to figure things out. space allows you to see if u really love and miss a person, because you are appart. he might just have alot of things going on and cant handle a girlfriend at the moment. if after a while of hanging, and being friends still remains that you love him, TELLL himm that. and if he doesnt agree, there isnt much you can do, if he isnt willing to commit to you, you can find someone else that will appretiate you and love you just as much
if you guys love each other why not be together again. tell him you love and want to be with him. and if he still insist that you should be in that way (separated), try to investigate and see if there is a third party interfering with your guy.
it sounds like he really doesnt know what he wants! and the whole friend thing i think it would be ten times harder to just be friends. maybe give him space i know is easier said then done. it also depends how long you two were 2gather. how old is he? because if hes not over 25 then hes still learning and growing up. you know us girls grown up faster. take care sweetie
Give him some time. He seems impatient and I have seen and been with ppl like.
However it’s not always best to be freinds after dating. What if one day you see him and feel like kissing him?
It sounds as if he has already moved on, and is trying to let ;you down easily. It is going to be hard on you to accept. Just try to be friendly to him and go on with your life, if it was meant to be for you all to get back together, you will. Otherwise, grieve for your loss and then move on.
I would not recommend being friends as he suggested, since you still love him. it would be excrutiating.
he doesn’t want to be your boyfriend but he wants to hang out together a lot? please, he wants his cake and eat too, and some extra helpings. he can’t have it both ways. you have feelings. what if he decides to date? while you hang out a lot. that would be hurtful. you think you could deal with that? think about it.
I think take some time a way from him and ace your exams. you really don’t need drama while studying.