How do you get your husband to love you again?
I think I should just give up! He is never gonna love me again! I am so sick of asking him to make love to me and he dont! I should have given up years ago!
I have been working out at curves! I have lost some weight….I have even taken my clothes off in front of him and nothing!
No way would I have another lady in our bedroom! Are you nuts? As for the BJ~ that is great for him….but no good at meeting my needs! Sure I am sure he would lay there and enjoy it! But you know if he cant kiss me and make love to me~ I sure am not doing that for him! No way!
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Well, well, well,
I’m actually in the process of trying to get my wife to love me again.
The best thing to do first of all is have a nice, calm, long, talk with him to find some things out. Don’t do a lot of talking, just ask questions and listen to find some things out.
The most important thing to find out is his love language. {Google love language if your not sure what that is, there are 5 different types)
Maybe he likes things done for him, making lunch, running an errand for him, scratching his back. (You have to at least try, after a good solid month or 2 of speaking to him in his love language, and he might open up more to you.
One question to ask is, "what attracted you to me when we first met"
Is he just not making love to you?? Is he at least holding your hand, giving you "that look" and telling you he loves you. If he is at least doing this, then perhaps he does love you, he just doesn’t love to have sex anymore. Some men do lose that drive regardless of attraction.
Also, get him involved with your efforts of working out. Let him see you working out so that he can see that your doing everything you can to be that person he can love again. (Not that your looks should matter, but sometimes men do have to have an attraction to make love, but like I said before, that doesn’t mean that he isn’t in love.
Keep working at it. (oh yea, I know you know this, since he was a pastor at one point, but there is a lot of power in prayer!)
And remember Phill 4:19……….God will provide all your needs!
The Mentalist
If the love is gone, just let it go…
if he emotionally isnt there anymore, than its over
Have you tried bringing another woman into the bedroom?
Have you offered to give him a BJ? That might change things a little.
Perhaps he has a low sex drive? Is he loving to you in other ways? If your relationship is bad and there is no sex, then you might want to consider moving on. But if sex is the only problem then take him to a doctor.
swallow dont spit
He may have a problem with his wizzer,it’s very embarrassing i’m 50yrs old and if i can’t get it up,i avoid being Intimate to much,i’m telling you it’s very embarrassing.
wait for his morning wood in the morning and take his love form him
Have you considered that he is sleeping with someone else
well i have found you don’t fall out of love…you just realize you were never in love to begin with. keep up with the curves workouts and the weight loss programs, leave the loveless relationship and start a new beautiful life. i think both of you gave up years ago and now you both have reached the end.
If it’s over, it’s over…move on
well i would start acting like him. but be more suductive in a secrtive way like start wearing more revealing clothes in front of him and just start inrorring him and hang with the girls. i think that could work, just play hard to get.
hope this helps.
good luck
just grab it and put it in your mouth.
he will instantly fall back in love if you do it good enough
what are you supposed to do after all tht youve been through…if the love is gone
maybe try going out to a really nice quiet dinner and when the time is right…
bring the subject up to him and discuss your feelings……
i say to do this out somewhere nice and quiet so neither one will get upset or too loud and he can’t walk off from you….
if the feeling was there at one time…. it is still there…. it has just gotten buried and other things in your daily lives has taken priority…..
you need to always keep the marriage new and interesting and do the things that the two of you really enjoyed as a couple……
was married for 27years till i lost my hubby in 2005…
believe me….. there were so many time when we could have gave up but……
marriage takes a lot of work and commitment..
communication is one of the main key factors in making a marriage work..
you need to be honest with him if you have not already….
Good Luck…. = )
lets rewrite this question…
How do I stop feeling sorry for my husband, because he lost a really really good thing?