Comments on: How do you get your husband to love you again? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3005/how-do-you-get-your-husband-to-love-you-again/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: The mentalist http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3005/how-do-you-get-your-husband-to-love-you-again/comment-page-1/#comment-17434 The mentalist Fri, 25 Dec 2009 09:36:39 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3005/how-do-you-get-your-husband-to-love-you-again/#comment-17434 Well, well, well, I'm actually in the process of trying to get my wife to love me again. The best thing to do first of all is have a nice, calm, long, talk with him to find some things out. Don't do a lot of talking, just ask questions and listen to find some things out. The most important thing to find out is his love language. {Google love language if your not sure what that is, there are 5 different types) Maybe he likes things done for him, making lunch, running an errand for him, scratching his back. (You have to at least try, after a good solid month or 2 of speaking to him in his love language, and he might open up more to you. One question to ask is, "what attracted you to me when we first met" Is he just not making love to you?? Is he at least holding your hand, giving you "that look" and telling you he loves you. If he is at least doing this, then perhaps he does love you, he just doesn't love to have sex anymore. Some men do lose that drive regardless of attraction. Also, get him involved with your efforts of working out. Let him see you working out so that he can see that your doing everything you can to be that person he can love again. (Not that your looks should matter, but sometimes men do have to have an attraction to make love, but like I said before, that doesn't mean that he isn't in love. Keep working at it. (oh yea, I know you know this, since he was a pastor at one point, but there is a lot of power in prayer!) And remember Phill 4:19..........God will provide all your needs! The Mentalist Well, well, well,

I’m actually in the process of trying to get my wife to love me again.

The best thing to do first of all is have a nice, calm, long, talk with him to find some things out. Don’t do a lot of talking, just ask questions and listen to find some things out.

The most important thing to find out is his love language. {Google love language if your not sure what that is, there are 5 different types)

Maybe he likes things done for him, making lunch, running an errand for him, scratching his back. (You have to at least try, after a good solid month or 2 of speaking to him in his love language, and he might open up more to you.

One question to ask is, "what attracted you to me when we first met"

Is he just not making love to you?? Is he at least holding your hand, giving you "that look" and telling you he loves you. If he is at least doing this, then perhaps he does love you, he just doesn’t love to have sex anymore. Some men do lose that drive regardless of attraction.

Also, get him involved with your efforts of working out. Let him see you working out so that he can see that your doing everything you can to be that person he can love again. (Not that your looks should matter, but sometimes men do have to have an attraction to make love, but like I said before, that doesn’t mean that he isn’t in love.

Keep working at it. (oh yea, I know you know this, since he was a pastor at one point, but there is a lot of power in prayer!)

And remember Phill 4:19……….God will provide all your needs!

The Mentalist

]]> By: Bone-Z Dekay http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3005/how-do-you-get-your-husband-to-love-you-again/comment-page-1/#comment-17435 Bone-Z Dekay Fri, 25 Dec 2009 09:36:39 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3005/how-do-you-get-your-husband-to-love-you-again/#comment-17435 If the love is gone, just let it go... If the love is gone, just let it go…

]]> By: elsienita http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3005/how-do-you-get-your-husband-to-love-you-again/comment-page-1/#comment-17436 elsienita Fri, 25 Dec 2009 09:36:39 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3005/how-do-you-get-your-husband-to-love-you-again/#comment-17436 if he emotionally isnt there anymore, than its over if he emotionally isnt there anymore, than its over

]]> By: ahandle101 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3005/how-do-you-get-your-husband-to-love-you-again/comment-page-1/#comment-17437 ahandle101 Fri, 25 Dec 2009 09:36:39 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3005/how-do-you-get-your-husband-to-love-you-again/#comment-17437 Have you tried bringing another woman into the bedroom? Have you tried bringing another woman into the bedroom?

]]> By: audicamaro http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3005/how-do-you-get-your-husband-to-love-you-again/comment-page-1/#comment-17438 audicamaro Fri, 25 Dec 2009 09:36:39 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3005/how-do-you-get-your-husband-to-love-you-again/#comment-17438 Have you offered to give him a BJ? That might change things a little. Have you offered to give him a BJ? That might change things a little.

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