Why Are People Not Saving Sex Anymore For Marriage?
Alright,
First of all, I’m tired of all these girls giving it up to guys.
I’m 17 and still a virgin and 100% proud of it.
I could care less if I’m inexperienced.
I have morals and I stick to them regardless of the situation.
I’ve pledged to never have sex till I have a ring on my finger and we have said our vows.
and it’s just so dumbfounding to me that there are girls YOUNGER than me that are having sex and think nothing of it.
so why are people not saving sex for marriage anymore?
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I’m 17 as well and saving myself for marriage. I’m extremely proud to say I’m a virgin. That’s a special gift and I don’t wanna give it to some random guy. I have been wondering the same thing.It’s like everyone’s morals went out the window. I’ve heard of girls like 12 having sex.
At 12, I was still playing barbies, haha.
Good for you! Your absolutely right!! Put a nickel inbetween your knees and don’t drop it!
because of the moral or lack of morals instilled in them at home and in their environment. you are a very strong person to think this way only young people especially tend to change so often i only hope you don’t and can set an example for anyone else around you.
you test drive a car before you by it
Because people are viewing sex as a defining factor in a relationship. It’s not an important thing in society anymore, not many people are raised with those values, and even fewer adopt those values by themselves. It is sickening that 13 year old are getting pregnant, I know a 15 year old about to have her 2nd baby…. Ultimately it’s not our place to judge them, it really doesn’t matter what someone else does with their life. Instead of concerning yourself with everyone else, just be proud you’re not giving in to it.
Because it’s an outdated idea. Sexuality is normal, sexual urges are normal, and sex is FUN. While I don’t promote promiscuity (or young kids having sex), I see nothing wrong with premarital sex. We have the tools to prevent STDs and unwanted pregnancies, so as long as someone is safe, it’s really none of your business.
Times are changing
stick to your beliefs and try not to let it get to you.
Well congratulations on still being a virgin at 17. However not everyone believes what you believe… I lost my virginity at 16 and don’t regret it… but good luck.. it takes a lot to with stand the pressure for guys.
First off— That’s great! Congrats!
But you can’t go around judging other people for the decisions that they have made, You’ll never know why people do what they do, so don’t judge!!!
Just be proud of yourself, and leave good enough alone!!!
This is a very sexual orientated Society , And many feel the pressure to have sex because many are doing it at any age. Good for you to save yourself for marriage. You have great values…
…because they don’t have the pride in themselves that you have. Hold tight to your morals and you will have something very special to give a lucky guy someday!!!!
Good for you! Keep at it.
because they no longer see the value in doing so
what with divorce rates at 50% or higher, they figure might as well
live it up experience it all now since they know their chances of divorce are high
they also use it as a lure to get a guy to commit
some see the questionable value of holding back for marriage since
women who do tend to enjoy sex less and use it as a weapon to get what they want from a guy
Because people do not think waiting is important anymore and alot of guys will not even consider marriage to someone who is a virgin. for some reason being a virgin bride is not considered a prize any more.i am glad i was able to find a man who considered me a great treasure for being a virgin bride.
Well it used to be more so because there was no birth control…as well as for religious reasons. But the inability to protect yourself from an unwanted child was the main REAL cause.
Truthfully, I do not know what is with so many who just lay down for anyone. I suppose it is their choice, but I doubt many would want even a small portion of these guys becoming the father of their children (if the birth control failed).
I had always vowed to save myself for marriage. I lost my virginity at 19…I married the man (never with anyone else) 4 years later. Its not exactly how I had planned, but I have no regrets.
Stick to your morals. Your future husband will value you for it, but more importantly, you will value yourself.
No one EVER regrets waiting. Your husband will appreciate the fact when you do get married.
Your intentions are honorable, and I hope you can stick with them.
BUT—
I think if you are in a committed relationship, you need to explore your sexual compatibility BEFORE you marry.
There is a huge window that includes "normal" sexual behavior, but that does not mean that ALL people are compatible.
Example–what if your partner is only fulfilled by abuse, whether given or taken…and that revolts you?
Perhaps they have a very large "organ" that the woman is unable or unwilling to accomodate??
What if something that one partner calls normal & expected is something you would never DO?
While marriage is NOT all about sex, it is a large part of the future happiness of a couple. So it is crucial to find these things out BEFORE the marriage. You may want to save yourself for your mate, but that might be a giant mistake in the long run.
It is up to you, though. I still believe it is better to find this out BEFORE the marriage. It is far easier to "break up" than to divorce.
Sex has become more casual. It’s great that you’re saving yourself for marriage, but many times girls who are virgins end up marrying their first "love" just so they can say they were married before they had sex. They end up married for the wrong reasons. Personally I need to know if the guy and I are sexually compatible before I decide to spend the rest of my life with him.Having a ring on your finger does not mean you will be together forever. Good luck
because these little hot pants mutha fuka aint thinking .. they want to be grown…. but dont want to take responsibility… my ol friends are like that… they got kids..and they on section 8…wannna hang out at the club and drop they child off at the mama house…that makes me mad.. im in college i dont need to be at the the club bumpin into people who got 2 or 3 kids…that just pisses me off
Would you buy a car without test driving it? Sexual compatibility is extremely important in a relationship. If there’s none it can be a breaker.
because morals have gone to hell in a hand basket…
Because people are stooping down to the world’s level. It’s sad, really.
I think it is AWESOME that you are saving yourself for marriage. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Marriage isn’t just about sex.
Good for you. You want to know why?
Cause it’s a personal choice. You made your choice and don’t worry about the choices others are making. You can’t change them and if that is the path they want to lead in life you just have to let them.
In the bible it mentions the end of the days and times when the antichrist is coming. So, everyday he is getting closer so which means sin is getting stronger and more fierce. It also mentions their will be times which you wont be able to tell a man from a woman and a woman from a man. The devil is a roaring lion that devours souls from sexual impurity, homosexualness, fornication, greed, pride, gluttony, lying, stealing, jealousy, worshipping idals, and lust. The devil is laughing his butt off at sinners. He is so excited to having millions of playmates that he can torture in hells fire. So, I am a 21 year old virgin black man and i love GOD and dont judge people thats a sin as long as you know the right thing to do make the right decisions. When the antichrist does coming he is going to be flawless. His body is going to be perfect. Perfect face, body, height, voice, skin, penis, feet, face, skull, arms, and the whole package including personality and other aspects. He is going to be a leader of the people he will give all human beings 666 on their head. So make sure to follow God if you believe but ultimately the decision is up to you!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am 29 and am still a Virgin – It is not easy to make it to this age and still be waiting gets harder every year, but I am waiting till marriage as well!