How do I get my boyfriend back after I cheated on him?
I cheated on my boyfriend 6 months ago, and he no longer wants to be with me now. He knew that it happened, and I was completely honest with him when I did it. I hurt him very much, and I really do want him back. I’ve completely cut off the person who I cheated on him with and now all I want is to gain his trust back. I know it won’t be something over night, but I do want to start working on things now, before it is too late.
Thank you so much for your time.
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Winning back your ex boyfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.
if you desire to get your ex back then these 3 simple steps should help achieve your goal:
1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can’t achieve a goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you don’t want them..
2.Don’t bother your ex boyfriend. Guys just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously call him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It’s better to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it will be great to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start doing some exercises and eating healthy. When on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back.However, if you really want to get him back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them…).
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Hope it helps.
Good luck
If you cared about him so much you wouldn’t have cheated on him. If it was a guy posting this questions everyone would have called him a jerk, well i think your a jerk just as well.
XD It’s OVER! XD
You will probably never get him back, but you have learned a valuable lesson to make you a better person in the future. Don’t cheat – it’s not right.
ok, lets turn the tables for a moment, shall we? How would you feel if he cheated on you? He’ll never trust you and he shouldn’t. If you care about someone, you wouldn’t cheat.
It is a really diffucult situation… You just need to be patient and call/visit him at all times… He will ignore you and will tell you off… He will tell you that he hates you, he is with another girl etc… You need to be patient and stubborn on the issue that you want him back…
I’ll just tell you straight-up with no b.s….Good luck with that, because if it were me, there would be no reconciliation at all.
If you love him and you really wants him back, you have to prove how much you regret it and make good deeds to get him back and to let him love you back. You should be honest and faithful from now on and no more cheating
Their are two types of men in this world those who can take being cheated on and those that can’t. So it doesn’t matter what you do to try and get him back if he’s one of the later then it wont work. I’d keep my apologies to the minimum, tell him your sorry and hope that he can forgive you then leave it at that. If he’s ever going to come back to you it will be in his own time and at his own pace. Im sure his got a lot going on in his head right know and is trying to sort it out. An example why should he take you back, what does he stand to gain if he does,can he trust you ever again? with all these questions going around in his head he probably wants to be alone to try and sort it out.Sorry that’s about all i can say on the matter hope it helps.
I’m in a very similar situation, though not by choice i cheated when drunk, but that doesnt make it any better. I think some people have got to realise that everyone makes mistakes and no its not okay but you can learn from them. I think its important to not make excuses for wat u did as it will just get them angry, which is wat happened with my ex. we had a fight the night we broke up and we didnt talk for about 3 months.
I texted him i think three times in that gap, one to ask if we can talk when i see him at a party, his reply was short and with no feelings, but at the party we didnt talk much and after it he stormed out and i didnt hear from him again. A day before valentines day i texted him basically apologising again and he texted me back 2 days after saying we might be able to be friends, but when i saw him he said we cant be friends and hooked up with a chick in front of me.
After that i stopped contact, but i missed him everyday and loved him none the less. 2 months later i texted him asking how he was cos i heard he had a fight with close friends of ours, a week after my best friend told him i was depressed and wasnt doing well and he texted me and wer talking again. nothing is happening yet, some nights we have very personal convos that connects us, but other nights his very short and stubborn.
and to that comment saying ‘flip the table’ yeah the table was flipped because he told a good mate of ours that he cheated too and it got back to me but i still loved him and was ready to forgive, but it turned out to be just a story he made up to get back at me.
basically, cheating is never ok, and i no that. but noone has any right to tell us that we cant care for them if we cheated because really they have no idea. theres lots of reasons y people cheat, none of them right but not all people who cheat are heartless and not care.
If we didnt care we wouldnt still be chasing them. cheating is the worse thing iv ever done, because i cheated on a boy who i loved, which is weird for me to say because my whole life i argued with people saying teenagers couldnt fall in love, but he changed my views.
I wish he could love me for things that iv done to make him happy, and that one thing i did to make him unhappy, because he knows we had something special. and i wish he knew that if he could give me another chance, i will make it the best decision he ever made.
Good luck getting urs back, I hope it works hey.
me too in same situation guys,,,,,i m terribly in need of my love i any how want him back in my life……lets hope for all good.. . ..
I was cheated on by my Ex after helping her raise a kid that wasn’t even mine! I was always there for the both of them and tried to live a life of morals and ethics with them. Her Excuse for messing around? She was bored!!! What the hell is that? It’s hard to create a lot of excitement when you are trying to build a family and raise a child. She felt like she missed out on her youth because she had a child at a young age. That’s Bullshit!!! I don’t have any kids and if I could make the adjustment into having a ready made family then she could have made the adjustment to keep her damn legs closed to another man!
I never mistreated her or cheated on her during the entire relationship. Here’s the deal for you in your situation. I doubt very seriously that you will ever get him back. You committed the ultimate betrayal to a loyal man from what it sounds like. At this point he considers you a whore and will never touch you again. He doesn’t want to know that another man was actually inside you. If he never loved you he would not care that you had sex with someone else.
Love will not overcome this because you allowed another man to have a physical relationship with you. When a woman allows this to happen that means she thought about this “other guy” long before it happened. Then you blame it on alcohol? That’s crap. You knew what you were doing! That’s why he gone forever. He cannot handle the mental and physical betrayal by you for a few minutes of sex. It says to him that everything he built with you meant absolutely nothing. One more thing, Karma is a Bitch!