How do you.. Fall in love all over again?
I’m with my husband of two years, and although i do love him, we dont have that ‘spark’ like we did when we met. I know we can get it again, he is absolutely perfect for me, as am i for him. I’m happy with him, i just want to get back that old spark we had. How do you start?
Don’t say leave him, there is no point giving up a good thing when there is definitely a way to fix it. I’m just not sure how, and i know almost everyone goes through this.
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You’ll never get that all consuming feeling of being in love back. The reason for that is that falling in love is an initial chemical reaction to each other….short of pumping yourselves full of endorphines at every corner, it’s just not going to happen. You just need to reconnect. Planned dates with just the two of you, doing things the two of you enjoy….happiness is being married to your best friend!
You have to look deep inside yourself to find the true answer. Thats what I would do.
well .. do something exciting .. take a trip around the world be romantic
take him to THE BED
do something u guys used to do, go on a second honey moon or something
You each write notes on how to make the relationship better, and trade them…
Maybe you need to spice things up a Little? Spend more time together and see if that works. You should never give up on something that makes you smile and happy.
well:
1. go in a vacation that is really romantic.
2. plan a night together filled with lots of fun.
hope i helped
good luck
Do something fun together. Go on a short roadtrip.. Something where it’s just you two.. Not a movie but something new.
do a little different then u did it the first time of course but make it work for u…it is very important not to contiune to compare your new love to your ex’s..be brand new about it bciz that can seriously b your down fall
well go back to the beginning when you first meet him and think what made you fall in love whit him what was it that he or you done
I went through this with my boyfriend. Things changed after the first year, but after putting real effort into our conversations and doing new exciting things, we began to fall for each other again. After nearly three years together, I think I love him more than I ever have. Good Luck to you!
I dont believe in love being everlasting… sorry
Try different things…meaning the way you have sex, from the way you guys flirt, from what you wear, leave him notes, do not tell him everything meaning plans that you might want to have with him or things you might do for him.
Bottom line do things different.
ditch the routine…the two of you should do something new together, like a physical activity. make sure you guys do something every week that is exciting. say: this week go on a hike. things like that. a romantic vacation might help as well…somewhere remote.
A lot depends on whether you have kids or not. I f you don’t have kids, then you can wear a sexy negligee after dinner and see if his libido heats up.
On the other hand if you have kids, well you need to try to find time for you and the hubby to be alone and try to re-ignite the spark that lit the fire. Maybe a relative or close friend can watch the kids for a weekend while you and the hubby make some time for yourselves.
Bast of luck to both of you.
Make a regular ‘date night’ for the two of you. Get dressed up and go out to a nice dinner and then take a long walk and talk afterwards. Do this once every two weeks (at least) and you’ll soon find that ‘spark’ is back in your relationship. My husband and I have been married for nearly 12 years, and we love each other to pieces, but we take walks, go ‘window shopping’ or out to dinner and a good gross (lots of blood) Sci-Fi or Action movie (we both love this kind of movie best) to keep that ‘spark’ going. We work on it so much that it’s now just a part of the things we do, so that even buying curtain rods (which we did just today) or going to the grocery store to return cans for the very first time (we moved to a state with deposits on cans and bottles) can become ‘dates’ to us. So choose wisely but make this a part of your lives, because it’s not that the spark has died, it’s just ‘hidden’ and you need to work to bring it out again.
Try being spontaneous together, and do something you did along time ago to bring back some good memories.
don’t take what you have for granted, a spark is whats used to start a fire, how you choose to feed the flame is what counts.