I still love my ex girlfriend and i want to get her back, how?
ok well i broke up with her like 3 months ago and she was saying that she wanted to get back together but then she went to some youth rally thing for church and now her whole mind just like changed and now she says she still loves me and stuff but she isnt sure if she wants to get back together now..
what can i do? any advice??
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Let me tel you in steps.
1 Don’t get too jealous. Remember, jealousy is an emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss, such as a relationship, friendship, or love.
2
Leave Her Alone. Give her some time to think about the relationship. If you had a great relationship, she’ll feel that she misses you and will try to get back to you.
3
Cut off all communication. This is tough and it will be killing you, but really it’s killing her more. She’s starting to realize how much she needs you and how much she misses you. Cutting off communication is the biggest step.
4
Recover Emotionally. You don’t have a chance of getting your ex back if you’re not emotionally calm and controlled. Women dislike needy, clingy, desperate men – so you need to pull your own life together before attempting to draw her back into it. Just be calm and collected about the whole situation, and make your life happier. Going for jogging or to the gym will make you feel better too.
5
Start talking to another girl. This helps for many reasons. This will probably be too much for your ex. She will find out that you’re talking to this girl, and it will get her back to you. Use with caution as it may give the wrong signals, such as a sign that she should move on because you have a new girlfriend.
6
Act like nothing is wrong. She’s not going to want you back if you’re acting depressed. Make sure you’re laughing a lot and pretending to have a good time. This is so hard because of the break up depression.
7
Look your best. Make sure your acne is gone, you get yourself shaped up, and looking good. She won’t be able to resist.
8
Build up confidence.
9
If you want to get her back, then you should be the Alpha male. Get back the confidence you had earlier when you just began dating her.
Good Luck
dude just be realy cute with her, girls like that. nd be really nice to her.
Praise her like you should.
Be cool. Be friends. Take it slow.
Don’t pressure her, be easy going.
Take time for yourself, and make you life better.
Let her know it’s a good idea to develop your friendship.
At its core, that what a relationship truely is.
become friend with her. start hanging out but only in a friend way. she’ll see how much you care for her and maybe she’ll eventually get back with you. but start out friends first
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tell her how you feel and ask her if you can meet up with her to talk. say something sweet and say how much you want to get back with her, and how much your relationship meant to you, and say you would love to take her back cause you made a stupid mistake
went thru same thing. but after a few more weeks i realized that it was a good choice NOT to get back together with her. But your story is proplably different and thats realy up to you.
TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IF SHE WAS YOUR GIRLFRIEND BEFORE, YOU CAN SHARE FEELINGS
OR MAKEOUT WITH ANOTHER GIRL TO MAKE HER JELOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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She does still love you, but she is not sure how she wants her feelings for you to manifest themselves in her life. As long as the lines of communication are open. it would help to know more of her thoughts. Don’t pressure her, but don’t get distance either. Understand that answers may not come soon enough and it is possible that no answer is in itself an answer.
Move on, sounds as if she found someone else, was tired of waiting on you, give it time though you answered her she says she loves you but!!! she making sure that what ever she has found is just not someone who just wants what he can get and drops her, now its a waiting game and she’s got you as a standby if things don’t go her way, and me personally I don’t like games so again I say move on and let her know that you love her also but you wont and will not play games so you will not sit around waiting for her to make up her mind you will be happier…Good Luck
Hello
Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
Here are few steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together
You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting her back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore someone’s texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Don’t Be Jealous
You must understand that …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Be Flexible
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Rather be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. Anyhow, if you really want to get her back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them…).
You can learn about the best and most popular guide on how to get your ex girlfriend back that was very helpful for me in this article:
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Hope it helps.