what are some of the things u can do to get over an ex quickly, how do u meet new women?
just had a 2 yr relationship breakup, she cheated on me and i found out, i love her so much but i dont want her back as hard it is, im trying my best to accept it but its soo hard…she wants me back but i thnk its all out of guilt becuz i caught her. its an ongoing thing they had and not just a one niter thing..had she had come clean, i wud of forgiven her but it tuk for me to catch her..and she lied to me evertime i asked whether she was hiding anything from me..i didnt know wat else to do.
we’re just playing the blame game atm and ive asked her to gimme time to think whether i want to give it another try, after all 2yrs is along time. deep down inside tho, i know that i cannot be with someone like that depsite how much i miss her, its hurting me real bad. i thnk she knows it too now that its over becuz its been 2 weeks since i told her i needed time.i want to get over this quick, can anyone sugest wat they’vfe done, how to meet other pipol (women), wat sites etc.? what activitie
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Let me start by saying that it is not easy. I would suggest before entering into another relationship take some time for your self. Enjoy your freedom for a while, and when you feel like you’re ready to get involve with someone else, go for it.
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Start slow and move on. It is also important to get closure from your old relationship so that it will not create problems in your new one.
I hear ya man, I just got out of the same situation. Mine was a year and a half, and she kissed someone else (doesn’t seem like much, but a kiss is still cheating) it was only a one nighter, and there is no way I could ever forgive her, even though I’d love to have her back.
I think if you go out and do things you wouldn’t normally do, you have a good chance of meeting people. Maybe get a gym membership, a lot of attractive women there.
Good luck, it gets easier.
we were in the same situation, difference is i’m a girl and you’re a guy. i also had this 2 year relationship with my ex, and he’s my first boyfriend and he also cheated on me with another girl. found out he’s going on with her for sometime while still having a relationship with me. plus, both of them know that they were still committed yet they still entered into another relationship. anyway, i admit i’m not yet over him but i’m getting there. advice? here goes.
1. there’s no quick way of getting over this much as you wanted it to be. it will take time for you to heal, you will get there promise.
2. draw your attention to something you like doing.
3. run as fast as you could. cut all communication, don’t answer the phone if she calls and never try to call her. don’t ever look back. you deserve someone much better than her.
4. realize that you’re better off without her, a cheater. when you get back with her, she will do it over and you will be hurt again and it will never stop. also, chances are she will be cheating on this new guy because she’s done it once, she can do it a million times again. and please, don’t believe in second chances. when you let go, let go completely.
5. be thankful that this early you came to know who she really is and you still had the time to kick a cheater out of your life and move on. imagine, if you guys had gotten married, have kids and you found out that she’s cheating on you all this time, and you learn that the kids you thought was yours wasn’t yours after all? man, that will suck a lot. =)
6. think that there’s always someone out there who will love, value and respect you more than that bitch ever could.
7. KARMA. what goes around comes around. you will have the last laugh eventually. hehe!!
8. be happy and thankful that you get to experience this. it’s really hard at first but it will make you a better and stronger person. remember, this is just the beginning. you will get to experience lots of hurt and pain as you go through with your life so just give it time and you will be fine.
good luck!