How can I learn to love again?
Ever since I went out with my first girlfriend ever (which turned out so horrible, she broke up with me and just turned out to be a total asshole, totally crushed me), I haven’t been able to love… like my current girlfriend loves me so much, but like logically I love her, but emotionally I just don’t feel it, and haven’t with any girl… I don’t know what it is. I think the emotional side of me was damaged when my first girlfriend destroyed it. Help?
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Love like you’ve never been hurt before. Think of that quote, and you know if you’re still angry from being hurt before, give yourself some time and some breathing space to get over it first. You’ll know when you’re ready to get back out there.
Talk to your current girlfriend about it if you can, don’t string her along if you’re feelings aren’t the same right now.
i know exactly what you mean..and what you feel is pretty common…your hurt by your last relationship, and your body still needs time to heal.
in time, you will be able to love again.
JUST DONT RUSH IT. your going through a healing process that we all go through..and results vary within people so some recover faster than others
give yourself time to heal, explain to your current girlfriend why you are the way you are, and how your first love crushed you the way she did. If your girlfriends a nice girl, she will be patient with you and slowly you will build trust between you, which is the basis for any successful relationship.