Comments on: Can i save my marrige?

By: sniper

sniper — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 04:48:24 +0000

Sometimes there is nothing you can do. If you have done everything within your means and she still insist that the marriage is over, then she has probably talked herself into a decision that you may never make her change. But always remember, life will go on and things will get better. Hopefully she will still let you have rights with the children. Continue to do what you know is right and your conscience will always be clear, regardless of what direction she takes. My prayers are with you and your family.

By: Mean Carleen

Mean Carleen — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 04:48:24 +0000

Sorry but it sounds like it is really over and you have to deal with that fact. You will not lose your kids, you will live in separate homes and you both will support your kids on all levels. It happens everyday and happening even more. Concentrate more on the kids and less on her because she sounds like she is done with you. A marriage has to want to be saved by BOTH parties involved not just one.

By: mariah

mariah — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 04:48:24 +0000

It could just be the homones raging during her pregnancy, but i kinda doubt it. If she claims to have had no feelings for you for the last 3 1/2 years, it sounds done. Obviously she has tried to make it last, and as much as it hurts, it seems you may both be happier in the end if you part ways.

By: lily

lily — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 04:48:24 +0000

not if she doesn`t want to

By: John L

John L — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 04:48:24 +0000

sorry but ive been here you can be roommates and hope thats enough but it wont be try to seperate for a while and hope that helps to open up some new feelings just set some ground rules for the seperation its not an excuse to run around and spend time with the kid(s) they need to see you both still love them. try the library for books and check with your insurance many offer mental health services