How can i get my ex girlfriend back :( (please read)?
Ok so, my girlfriend of a year broke up with me about two weeks ago. Just a week before our year anniversary. She claimed that i never gave her space to breathe and that for the past month or so we were arguing about everything. I have no problem admitting that i was extremely clingy and always trying to hover over her via texts, calling, asking to hang out, ect. She told me she needed space and i didnt know how to handle it. I begged and cried and pleaded for her to let me have another chance but claimed that she just couldnt do it right now. The next week was my birthday, i asked her to hang out with me just because it would make me feel better about everything (big mistake, i think) I went out and bought her 2 life sized teddy bears, 2 dozen roses, a card, and like 10 balloons shaped like hearts. She agreed to come over and i presented her with everything. She was happy and started to cry and i thought i was doing great. Then, she began to tell me that she had told me to be less clingy in the past and that i had gone back to being the clingy person i am for the last year we’ve been together and it wasnt going to take a week for her to notice that i changed. I cried and we hugged and talked for about 30 minutes and then she left. I have started going back to therapy to try and work on becoming less clingy, and work on my short temper and just have been doing everything i possibly can to show her that i have and can change. Its been a week and a half since my birthday and i havent talked to her since. I feel like the best way to show her that im changing is by giving her that space that she asked for. a few days ago i got a text from her asking what happened at school that day but it was a very short lived conversation. I felt like that was her way of trying to talk to me again or coming up with an excuse to talk to me.
I haven fallen deeply in love with this girl and we were together for just about a year. She said that after new years she would see how she was doing and that maybe we could try things out again. She goes away for christmas and new years to visit her family and will be gone for a week and a half. Do you think she’ll realize how much she loved me and wants to still be with me? I need to know how else to get her back because i love this girl so much and i would do anything to have her back. Please help me 
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This is rough. I have been guilty of doing the same thing (so I am told).
You are doing the right thing in respecting her space. What you might do when she returns is to tell her that you are a very sensitive guy and showing your emotions is just second nature to you but that you will try harder to honor her wishes because her love is everything to you. Ask her to let you know whenever you are being a bit too clingy and you will stop.
As hard as it will be for you, you must let her set the tempo of the relationship. Take the cues from her as to when she is in a cuddling mood vs when she wants a little distance.
I hope things work out for you both!
Hey man, I’ve been there myself. It looks like you’re on the right path with the realization that you need to give her the space she wants. Pleading and begging to get back together with her just comes off as needy and clingy, which is exactly why she said she broke up with you.
So you need to do the opposite of clingy and needy. You need to (from her perspective) vanish off the face of the earth. She will be left wondering and guessing what happened to you and how you are doing. It’s probably good that it’s the holidays right now, since people tend to get nostalgic for the past around this time.
Wait for her to contact you (she eventually will). Then just play it cool. don’t ask her to get back together with you. Just be that happy and fun guy that she fell for in the first place. Keep things light and fun and leave her wanting more.
You might have to see her a couple of times and each time come off as that fun and lighthearted guy. Eventually she’ll remember how great it is being with you, and she’ll miss your relationship.
But the key is to back off and give her the space she wants. It will take time, and it will probably be pretty hard for you, but think of it like this: you are giving her the gift of missing you.
I hope this helps.