Is it ok to have extra marital affair when your wife doesn’t love you?
My wife is involved with some other guy and she never loved me but because of my family and my dignity, I never open this up and my wife takes advantage of it. But then I started loving a girl much younger to me and she loves me wholeheartedly too. We both (me and girl) love each other a lot but we cant marry until I divorce my wife which is again legal issue. My life is a hell where I cant live with whom I love and live with one who doesn’t love me.
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2 wrongs don’t make a right. Do what is right first and divorce before you go any further with this other woman.
-if you really love this girl so divorse your wife right now…and forget about her…make her history..
-start new life with this girl…no one deserve to live like you do..
GOOD LUCK
You need to get some balls and move on for petes sake!!!! Divorce your wife and live the life you want and deserve. I suppose you won’t do this until you are ready, and hopefully that will be sooner than later.
No…. not until you go through the divorce. Don’t cheat you can wait.
Oh those pesky li’l ol’ marriage vows! Getting in the way of all your FUN and stuff……. you and your WIFE (using the term loosely) are the reason that STD’s like herpes and chlamydia and hepatitis C are at epidemic proportions.
get a divorce
well if your wife too loves another guy… shell agree to divorce right a way.. no point dragging the relation which never ever existed…its good to leave before you start hating each other living under single roof….
Deep down you already know the answer to that question. No it’s never ok to cheat on your spouse. Look through the course of history and see how having an affair has ruined lives. you know it’s not ok. You took a vow to be faithful and stay in through the tough times. Even if Your wife didn’t hold up her end of the bargain doesn’t mean your "free to run Rome". If you are not happy there is a reason and both of you need to work on it together, because obviously she isn’t happy either. It takes two to make a marriage work, so why did y’all get married in the first place? If love was not between the both of you?
Ah heck, you can just move out and you and your new gal can shack up and then file for divorce later. I am not sure your problem here, because it seems to speak for itself.
Dang just cheat your wife isn’t a wife in my books anywayz. get out there and cheat, that will open her cheating eyes. she’s a slut if she’s involved with someone else and your a schmuck
Sounds like you are already having an affair if you are already "in love".
Take all your stuff, move to the new girls house and worry about the paperwork later.
It’s never okay.
Push the divorce to move faster.
i don’t think it is right for you to allow your wife to cheat on you with another man! first of all, when you first found out about her affair, that is when you needed to file for a divorce. You shouldn’t of moved on while being married. looking for love in other places! The right thing to do is file for a divorce, and don’t let her know about your affair with this new girl you are seeing. When the divorce is filed your wife can actually use that against you in court. so, my advice to you is, don’t let the world know about the new woman in your life. Until, your divorce is final with your wife. Besides, with your wife having an affair, you can definitely use that against her in court, but if she finds out about your affair, then y’all both will be at fault in front of the judge.
I don’t believe that divorce is always the best answer, I also believe that cheating isn’t right either. It seems that both you and your wife would be happier apart. I think a person only lives ones life so you need to enjoy it. Your wife cheating and taking advantage of the situation is wrong and no one deserves that. It may be a legal issue, but happiness is more important ( in many ways). Good luck.
And you think living the way you are,is good for your family and dignity,Get a bloody divorce,screwing around ain’t gonna fix nothing.
its still adultry, get divorced first.
@eatmy.peaches
I dare you to prove that hepatitis C is a STD. This is a very stupid thing to say and shows that you obviously have no idea what you are talking about.